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If you aren't fvcking her, you're her gf.

If she is 43 and friendzoning you, but then planning hikes it is possible she's trying to mindfvck you with some $hitty advice from a columnist about playing hard to get.

Don't be too available will be key here if she is even worth bothering with. If you go on the hike, don't initiate contact afterwards and don't be available for her next friendzone date, you have something else going on.
We don't do that friendzone around here, and we don't do going on all this dates without fvcking either. Women KNOW who they want to fvck. They are sexually empowered, and they do it quickly. Usually dating one group of guys, and straining for validation from another one or two via sex. She gives all she got to these guys --- who don't really want her.
 

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Women told you she saw no connection then ask you for a hike.


When things are unclear its either she is playing game or she is looking for orbiters....
Why would someone want either of those choices.
Easy next
 

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I agree 100 percent with what others are saying. I may have a rather pessimistic view of females and I honestly can’t put this any other way but the majority are parasites. I mean they rely on multiple hosts to feel good and carry on with their lives. They require constant attention from multiple males. Don’t feed her any of your energy. You will go on this hike and she will reel you closer to her stable of energy hosts. When she is bored or down she will send you pictures and fish for compliments. It’s female nature.... this will give her the confidence to go out and fck some other dudes Brains out.... the dude that is probably refusing to give her any energy or validation. Don’t go on this hike with her... your better off taking a guy friend a few 6 packs and enjoying your time in nature.

I never ever respond to any selfie or seductive photo a female sends me. It annoys the hell out of me because I know she’s looking for validation. If there is something I notice in the picture like one girl sent me one in her bikini I took notice that the room was a fcking mess. I responded instead of photo shopping bikini pictures you should probably get all those piles of dirty clothing off the floor before it starts to stink. That girl would not leave me alone and I wanted her to go away. Just don’t feed into her friendzone nonsense.
 

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I agree 100 percent with what others are saying. I may have a rather pessimistic view of females and I honestly can’t put this any other way but the majority are parasites. I mean they rely on multiple hosts to feel good and carry on with their lives. They require constant attention from multiple males. Don’t feed her any of your energy. You will go on this hike and she will reel you closer to her stable of energy hosts. When she is bored or down she will send you pictures and fish for compliments. It’s female nature.... this will give her the confidence to go out and fck some other dudes Brains out.... the dude that is probably refusing to give her any energy or validation. Don’t go on this hike with her... your better off taking a guy friend a few 6 packs and enjoying your time in nature.

I never ever respond to any selfie or seductive photo a female sends me. It annoys the hell out of me because I know she’s looking for validation. If there is something I notice in the picture like one girl sent me one in her bikini I took notice that the room was a fcking mess. I responded instead of photo shopping bikini pictures you should probably get all those piles of dirty clothing off the floor before it starts to stink. That girl would not leave me alone and I wanted her to go away. Just don’t feed into her friendzone nonsense.
It was fun imagining the conversation.
Her: What do you think about my new bikini?
You: B1tch, get outta here and clean that room. You nasty! And while you're at it, get me a beer!
 

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So... last Thursday I went on a date with a HB7.5 aprox.. shes my age... we bantered back and forth for a week cuz we both been busy.. and played 20 questions and a few phone calls up until our date..

We agreed to get together over dinner ..... and we had good time... some laughs.. some situational humor... and a couple drinks.. It was gettin late for her cuz she had to work next day and she gets up at 3am to go to work... so we part... we hug..

Next day... we have some more banter via text at work... but then she says "i dont think we have a connection, i wish you luck".... so i shrug it off and thank her for meeting up with me and i let her know i thought she was pretty cute.

Five days later.. she texts me... she says "hey how ya doing" .... asks me if i have done any new recipes (i mentioned to her previously about my meal planning which is pretty much always the same so she negged me on it playfully) I mentioned to her that no.. im just meal planning with the supplies i have.. and this weekend i will try making somthing new and that id think of her when i did it...

Today.. she texts me and tells me about her day and asks if id like to go on a hike with her maybe this weekend... lol... so im like... well, ill have to see.. leme get back to you.. so i left her hanging for a few hours and got back to her at the end of the day and said yeah i think that sounds good id love to join ya.

Why would she tell me she didnt feel a connection... wish me good luck.. but then ask if i wana go on a hike with her like 7 days later.. lol??

The woods is more my element anyways... :p kinda stoked.. but ill play it cool. Shes a cool chick... i enjoyed her banter and company ..so... will see how it goes.
Women have this weird games... she probably found another guy she was more attracted too... I explain it here.

Had a case where I've met a girl on gym... She was always talking to me there and showing interest. Then I invited her to go out someday... She gave an excuse, tried second time and the same happened. Then I just stopped talking or even giving attention.

After 1 year, she saw me on street... then texted me on Whatsapp. I invited her to my house, fcked her like a *****. Don't even showed interest into talking to her... She enjoyed a lot, I enjoyed too. Then I just leave and did not talk to her.

Women that play those games like that, should be only a fun for you. That girl I've met wanted to had sex with me in the beginning, but at some point I've made a mistake into her game and she tried to mess up with me... but I did not get attached to that. Then, the bang happened. 1 year later LOL (but I wasn't even expecting to that... just spinning plates)

If you want to fck this girl... Learn how to use her strategy in your favor... fck her, then leave without saying a word. Those kind of women don't deserve much more than that.

Analyzing your situation, she might had found a guy she liked more (Hypergamy in action), then discarded you... As she doesn't need you anymore. But, then that guy might have discarded her and she was emotionally needy... She had you as a backup plan, that's why she texted you again.

If you get the idea that there might be a lot of guys talking to her... in those five days a lot of stuffs could happened.

It's like a strategy game... the more malicious you become, the faster you will destroy the enemy... In that case, bang her.
 
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I agree 100 percent with what others are saying. I may have a rather pessimistic view of females and I honestly can’t put this any other way but the majority are parasites. I mean they rely on multiple hosts to feel good and carry on with their lives. They require constant attention from multiple males. Don’t feed her any of your energy. You will go on this hike and she will reel you closer to her stable of energy hosts. When she is bored or down she will send you pictures and fish for compliments. It’s female nature.... this will give her the confidence to go out and fck some other dudes Brains out.... the dude that is probably refusing to give her any energy or validation. Don’t go on this hike with her... your better off taking a guy friend a few 6 packs and enjoying your time in nature.

I never ever respond to any selfie or seductive photo a female sends me. It annoys the hell out of me because I know she’s looking for validation. If there is something I notice in the picture like one girl sent me one in her bikini I took notice that the room was a fcking mess. I responded instead of photo shopping bikini pictures you should probably get all those piles of dirty clothing off the floor before it starts to stink. That girl would not leave me alone and I wanted her to go away. Just don’t feed into her friendzone nonsense.
Interesting perspective.... i may not go with her.... and just take a couple guy friends.
 
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