Women can’t tell the difference between a good and bad "power"

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Women often can’t tell the difference between a good man and a bad man based on how he gains his “power.”

I could give countless examples, different women, different situations, but time and again, many women seem to prefer a man who has money, influence, and authority, even if he’s arrogant, manipulative, or exploitative. As long as he projects confidence, speaks with conviction, and appears successful through his intelligence or “know-how,” he’s seen as desirable. They’ll often choose that kind of man over someone who’s sincere, authentic, kind, and not manipulative, even if that man has a steady, respectable job and lives comfortably.


In other words, many women don’t seem to notice why/how a man has achieved power but they simply associate his social status or wealth with intelligence and the ability to provide. At the end of the day, it seems they don’t care whether he gained those resources honestly or not, what matters is that he can provide for her, her children, and their family. Women often prefer a man who gives them a little affection from time to time but spends most of his energy “out there” hustling and accumulating resources, rather than a man with less status who treats them with steady respect.


It is also the case that, just like men, many women have emotional or psychological issues that shape this behavior. Deep down, some of them might wish for something real and genuine, but because of their past traumas, they may never truly be able to have it, even if they try.
 

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Some women don't even care how you did it, but those are the women you want to stay away from anyway.
We don't know the truth 100%, but if you put two men in a room, and one of them has more power than the other and got it shadily, and is a con man, and the other is a respectful and loving person, how many women in a group of ten would choose the one with less power?

We evolved to live in palaces and be transported on four wheels, that's the story of the last 100 years, but our biological brains definitely need more time to evolve, which is why I think 9 out of 10 women would choose the con man.


I enter the woman's mind (whether healthy or unhealthy doesn't matter, they all think the same way).
Who can provide? The one with the most power.
But he's a "pig", a disaster, and he acts like an 4ssh0le.
I have to do everything! I can to win him over! I can change him.
The respectful and loving one would allow me a peaceful life, respect me.
But can he protect me and provide? I don't know. That's why the one with the most power is truly a better catch!


That's why there will be:
a) Damaged Women (AW)
b) Women who manage to cage such a 4assh0le man (they'll go crazy even if they were healthy before, because now they're with a deranged man and they trauma bond)
c) Women who don't (they'll have the most respectful and loving relationships, but they'll feel like something's missing)

But I challenge every woman not to have a thought like I described. If it's biology, there's no arguing with that.
 

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They cant. What makes you believe they can?
How dumb do you think people are?

That somehow because she is a "woman" she is not smart enough to know that a person who lives a lifestyle consistent with a drug dealer and who sees and hears various things on a daily basis doesn't "know" where his money and status come from?

Give me a break. The stuff people convince themselves of on this board is really next level fvckery.
 

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How dumb do you think people are?

That somehow because she is a "woman" she is not smart enough to know that a person who lives a lifestyle consistent with a drug dealer and who sees and hears various things on a daily basis doesn't "know" where his money and status come from?

Give me a break. The stuff people convince themselves of on this board is really next level fvckery.
Real talk

Women are aware in the vast majority of the time what they are doing, the idea that they are not aware is just bs it is promoted so they do not have any accountability for all the “bad” stuff they do

much easier to think about yourself that you are a very good human that was tricked by this evil guy, than to take yourself accountable for the actions you did. Most people s8ck at taking accountability, especially women

A good example of this for example when women do not count the guys she had casual flings, because they don’t “matter” for whatever reason
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Its not about intelligence, its about woman relying more on their feelings and emotions. Its one of the reasons why woman ****block each other on parties or other highly emotional induced environments. They are easily influenced by emotional triggers, it builds attraction even if its with the wrong guy.
This is a completely different topic from what I was talking about and is unrelated to what I am saying.

This would be like saying why do other men try and take women from the guy who is already talking to her.
 

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Most women can read energy OP. They can sense if your power is of high vibration (good power) or low vibration (bad).
 

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That's why a mere woman is often a weaker vessel morally. However a woman can become the wisest of all if she has believes in a higher power or authority or have a sense of God Consciousness within her. Figures like Mary Madeline is a good examples of this, it's usually the women who are active in their communities, often helping those in need and being some sort of aide or helping out in some charitable projects that often projects this quality, or a good starting point to judge anyways. As the great Pook once said, ' You can tell a lot about a woman's soul for the people who can do nothing for her'.
 

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In the short term but for most it won’t last long, especially with the need of most men to over explain themselves in an effort to impress. If you can stay mysterious like Christian Grey then yes power can be a huge asset. I would suggest very few have the composition to pull that off. My friend’s grandfather is like this. He’s a no bull****, old fashioned 70’s-90’s era New York gangster. He is the shortest man in the room and the largest at the same time. He’s the absolutely most charismatic, unassuming family looking guy but I have seen countless times the toughest of dining rooms all stay seated until he got up to leave and then 100 people get up after he did. Different breed of cat. Never once has he said a word about it. Maybe a little recently. Certainly not outside of our little world.
 
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