"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Women are like...
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DonGorgon
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Wrong. In the US it is 3 to 1 .DonGorgon said:
Women are the most amazing creatures to walk the earth. They light up the darkest of days, they create life, they are the sensitive, they put a smile on aface. They will fight to be with the person they want.
To sum them up: They are perfect in every way.
All the negative responses are all the YOUR faults not the women. Women want to find and spoil men, but you guys that have a bitter and ugly perception of women will never find the woman of your dreams. Remember your sisters and mothers are women, And all I can say about my mom is that she is perfect.
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Good observation, romangod, but I'm at least happy that the # of women doing my job at my current location or region is 1 in 70. Women get upset with the small stuff quicker and more numerous which is why they usually can't handle my job for very long. It takes vision and confidence to see it through to completion.romangod said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Mine's a ****trd323 said:
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“Women are like apples on trees, the best ones are on the top of the tree.
The men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and don't want to get hurt.
Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't so good but easy.
So, the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality they are amazing.
They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top because they value quality.”
I wish that girls were more like Pot Noodle – freeze dried and quick.
Farewell to guilt trips, nagging and random tantrums.
If she lived in a cupboard, things wouldn’t be so tough
Lol dunno if you get these in america just reminded me of the advert.
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=zX4GEpMYdA4