You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sad but true.romangod said:Women are like.............................. Men.
Too bad. It never used to be that way.
Cheers!
Wrong. In the US it is 3 to 1 .DonGorgon said:Women only have power cause there are less of them in the dating game... so they are like anything that is in limited supply - extra valuable.
Good observation, romangod, but I'm at least happy that the # of women doing my job at my current location or region is 1 in 70. Women get upset with the small stuff quicker and more numerous which is why they usually can't handle my job for very long. It takes vision and confidence to see it through to completion.romangod said:Women are like.............................. Men.
Too bad. It never used to be that way.
Cheers!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Mine's a ****trd323 said:All the negative responses are all the YOUR faults not the women. Women want to find and spoil men, but you guys that have a bitter and ugly perception of women will never find the woman of your dreams. Remember your sisters and mothers are women, And all I can say about my mom is that she is perfect.
XDDDDDDJDamage said:Women are like hurricanes, when they first come in they are wet and wild but when they decide to leave they can take your house and car with them.