She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sad but true.romangod said:Women are like.............................. Men.
Too bad. It never used to be that way.
Cheers!
Wrong. In the US it is 3 to 1 .DonGorgon said:Women only have power cause there are less of them in the dating game... so they are like anything that is in limited supply - extra valuable.
Good observation, romangod, but I'm at least happy that the # of women doing my job at my current location or region is 1 in 70. Women get upset with the small stuff quicker and more numerous which is why they usually can't handle my job for very long. It takes vision and confidence to see it through to completion.romangod said:Women are like.............................. Men.
Too bad. It never used to be that way.
Cheers!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Mine's a ****trd323 said:All the negative responses are all the YOUR faults not the women. Women want to find and spoil men, but you guys that have a bitter and ugly perception of women will never find the woman of your dreams. Remember your sisters and mothers are women, And all I can say about my mom is that she is perfect.
XDDDDDDJDamage said:Women are like hurricanes, when they first come in they are wet and wild but when they decide to leave they can take your house and car with them.