California Love
Master Don Juan
Women and Men can be good friends with no sexual interest in the equation. Yes or No? Discuss.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Women and Men can be friends
- Thread starter California Love
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
California Love
Master Don Juan
I should probably clarify. Yes, attractive women. Someone you would be enthusiastic about going places/doing things with.Originally posted by DJ24SEVEN
Shouldn't you say "attractive" women? Cause I was friends with plenty of 5s abd below.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
It happens hundreds of times a day to AFC that get trapped in the LJBF zone.
California Love
Master Don Juan
In this case, the AFC would be attracted.Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
It happens hundreds of times a day to AFC that get trapped in the LJBF zone.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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I voted yes. As long as both sides have balanced lives (both are seeing people, having enough sex, etc), it's easy to maintain a friendship. If one side is unbalanced however (usually the guy) then you have a flawed friendship where one person wants more and the other one wants status quo.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
I agree with mindovermatter.
However if you have sex with someone..or date them for a short period.
and mutually lose that attraction for each other..and you have a fun time together..then you can be friends.
thats probably one of the best friends you will ever make..because it would keep you from being AFC with other women.
However if you have sex with someone..or date them for a short period.
and mutually lose that attraction for each other..and you have a fun time together..then you can be friends.
thats probably one of the best friends you will ever make..because it would keep you from being AFC with other women.