California Love
Master Don Juan
Women and Men can be good friends with no sexual interest in the equation. Yes or No? Discuss.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Women and Men can be friends
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
California Love
Master Don Juan
I should probably clarify. Yes, attractive women. Someone you would be enthusiastic about going places/doing things with.Originally posted by DJ24SEVEN
Shouldn't you say "attractive" women? Cause I was friends with plenty of 5s abd below.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
It happens hundreds of times a day to AFC that get trapped in the LJBF zone.
California Love
Master Don Juan
In this case, the AFC would be attracted.Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
It happens hundreds of times a day to AFC that get trapped in the LJBF zone.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I voted yes. As long as both sides have balanced lives (both are seeing people, having enough sex, etc), it's easy to maintain a friendship. If one side is unbalanced however (usually the guy) then you have a flawed friendship where one person wants more and the other one wants status quo.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
I agree with mindovermatter.
However if you have sex with someone..or date them for a short period.
and mutually lose that attraction for each other..and you have a fun time together..then you can be friends.
thats probably one of the best friends you will ever make..because it would keep you from being AFC with other women.
However if you have sex with someone..or date them for a short period.
and mutually lose that attraction for each other..and you have a fun time together..then you can be friends.
thats probably one of the best friends you will ever make..because it would keep you from being AFC with other women.