California Love
Master Don Juan
Women and Men can be good friends with no sexual interest in the equation. Yes or No? Discuss.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Women and Men can be friends
- Thread starter California Love
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
California Love
Master Don Juan
I should probably clarify. Yes, attractive women. Someone you would be enthusiastic about going places/doing things with.Originally posted by DJ24SEVEN
Shouldn't you say "attractive" women? Cause I was friends with plenty of 5s abd below.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
It happens hundreds of times a day to AFC that get trapped in the LJBF zone.
California Love
Master Don Juan
In this case, the AFC would be attracted.Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
It happens hundreds of times a day to AFC that get trapped in the LJBF zone.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
MindOverMatter
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I voted yes. As long as both sides have balanced lives (both are seeing people, having enough sex, etc), it's easy to maintain a friendship. If one side is unbalanced however (usually the guy) then you have a flawed friendship where one person wants more and the other one wants status quo.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
I agree with mindovermatter.
However if you have sex with someone..or date them for a short period.
and mutually lose that attraction for each other..and you have a fun time together..then you can be friends.
thats probably one of the best friends you will ever make..because it would keep you from being AFC with other women.
However if you have sex with someone..or date them for a short period.
and mutually lose that attraction for each other..and you have a fun time together..then you can be friends.
thats probably one of the best friends you will ever make..because it would keep you from being AFC with other women.