"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Women and closure?

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BangBus

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Whots up with that? They want closure after i dumped her?
What iit is for?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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To blame you for everything that went wrong in the relationship so she can feel better about herself at your expense.

That's basically the meaning of closure, though I would look at it as a matter of diffrences of degree between diffrent girls..
 
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It's a nice thing to do. You dumped her, I think its human to give her a reason why.

Just make sure that she gets it, and doesn't sucker you in again. Just "goodbye goodluck, I'm looking for someone who has more ambition" or whatever.
 
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She knows why i dumped her. She got caught cheeting, unless see stupid or something.Why should i treet her nice, after i caught her cheatin on me? Caught her witha nother dude! That was it. I cut her loose right there. She could not even deny, explain or anything. that was beczu of her guilt. Its over! no closure. why be nice bout it?
 
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and somehow you seem to be saying that men don't want closure either.....


Edit: Though I don't see why you should give anything to this one....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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