"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Women and closure?

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Whots up with that? They want closure after i dumped her?
What iit is for?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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To blame you for everything that went wrong in the relationship so she can feel better about herself at your expense.

That's basically the meaning of closure, though I would look at it as a matter of diffrences of degree between diffrent girls..
 
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It's a nice thing to do. You dumped her, I think its human to give her a reason why.

Just make sure that she gets it, and doesn't sucker you in again. Just "goodbye goodluck, I'm looking for someone who has more ambition" or whatever.
 
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She knows why i dumped her. She got caught cheeting, unless see stupid or something.Why should i treet her nice, after i caught her cheatin on me? Caught her witha nother dude! That was it. I cut her loose right there. She could not even deny, explain or anything. that was beczu of her guilt. Its over! no closure. why be nice bout it?
 
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and somehow you seem to be saying that men don't want closure either.....


Edit: Though I don't see why you should give anything to this one....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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