"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women and closure?

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BangBus

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Whots up with that? They want closure after i dumped her?
What iit is for?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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To blame you for everything that went wrong in the relationship so she can feel better about herself at your expense.

That's basically the meaning of closure, though I would look at it as a matter of diffrences of degree between diffrent girls..
 
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It's a nice thing to do. You dumped her, I think its human to give her a reason why.

Just make sure that she gets it, and doesn't sucker you in again. Just "goodbye goodluck, I'm looking for someone who has more ambition" or whatever.
 
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She knows why i dumped her. She got caught cheeting, unless see stupid or something.Why should i treet her nice, after i caught her cheatin on me? Caught her witha nother dude! That was it. I cut her loose right there. She could not even deny, explain or anything. that was beczu of her guilt. Its over! no closure. why be nice bout it?
 
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and somehow you seem to be saying that men don't want closure either.....


Edit: Though I don't see why you should give anything to this one....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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