"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women´s lunacy is seen as a good thing today

JdelaSilviera

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Well, here is another lesson from facebook. It´s not enough that Oprah or Tyra endorse women´s obesity as a good thing, women are now behaving as spoiled little kids, and see that as a virtue, as feminine, as a quality that makes women special.

Most girls "like" this group on facebook: I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." — Marilyn Monroe

Stop treating women as special beings.... it´s a favour you do to the world. If men continue behaving like girls and treating women as superior gods, all of us are going to suffer the consequences. A future of even more flaky, more rude, more lunatic women.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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JdelaSilviera said:
Well, here is another lesson from facebook. It´s not enough that Oprah or Tyra endorse women´s obesity as a good thing, women are now behaving as spoiled little kids, and see that as a virtue, as feminine, as a quality that makes women special.

Most girls "like" this group on facebook: I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." — Marilyn Monroe

Stop treating women as special beings.... it´s a favour you do to the world. If men continue behaving like girls and treating women as superior gods, all of us are going to suffer the consequences. A future of even more flaky, more rude, more lunatic women.
One of my friends on FB who is a complete basket case and just divorced her husband because "he didn't understand my needs! (LOL her need to be bipolar, go out get drunk and hop on random ****s!) posted this on her page. I posted back.

Screw that, I want a woman who says :
I'm giving, patient and very secure. I make mistakes but learn from them, I am in control and at know how to handle myself like a responsible adult. But if I can't control myself, then I sure as hell don't deserve you" — Sane Woman
Needless to say she was not pleased. hahahaha
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I for one do not believe women engage in a conspiracy against men lol I cannot even begin to imagine the many ways in which such a belief would hinder my life. Most women I've known want to meet someone interesting and whom they click with. I'm not sure why this is a hard thing to believe, but if you cannot see it then you probably need to spend more time hanging out with women and seeing they have lots of legitimate problems. If you spend all your time focusing on the bottom 10% of women, it's going to discolor your vision on the majority.
 

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Zarky said:
read my sig and take it to heart
LOL you should change bitter to on Sosuave and other dating sites period. hahahaha.
 
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