"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women´s lunacy is seen as a good thing today

JdelaSilviera

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Well, here is another lesson from facebook. It´s not enough that Oprah or Tyra endorse women´s obesity as a good thing, women are now behaving as spoiled little kids, and see that as a virtue, as feminine, as a quality that makes women special.

Most girls "like" this group on facebook: I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." — Marilyn Monroe

Stop treating women as special beings.... it´s a favour you do to the world. If men continue behaving like girls and treating women as superior gods, all of us are going to suffer the consequences. A future of even more flaky, more rude, more lunatic women.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Warrior74

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JdelaSilviera said:
Well, here is another lesson from facebook. It´s not enough that Oprah or Tyra endorse women´s obesity as a good thing, women are now behaving as spoiled little kids, and see that as a virtue, as feminine, as a quality that makes women special.

Most girls "like" this group on facebook: I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." — Marilyn Monroe

Stop treating women as special beings.... it´s a favour you do to the world. If men continue behaving like girls and treating women as superior gods, all of us are going to suffer the consequences. A future of even more flaky, more rude, more lunatic women.
One of my friends on FB who is a complete basket case and just divorced her husband because "he didn't understand my needs! (LOL her need to be bipolar, go out get drunk and hop on random ****s!) posted this on her page. I posted back.

Screw that, I want a woman who says :
I'm giving, patient and very secure. I make mistakes but learn from them, I am in control and at know how to handle myself like a responsible adult. But if I can't control myself, then I sure as hell don't deserve you" — Sane Woman
Needless to say she was not pleased. hahahaha
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I for one do not believe women engage in a conspiracy against men lol I cannot even begin to imagine the many ways in which such a belief would hinder my life. Most women I've known want to meet someone interesting and whom they click with. I'm not sure why this is a hard thing to believe, but if you cannot see it then you probably need to spend more time hanging out with women and seeing they have lots of legitimate problems. If you spend all your time focusing on the bottom 10% of women, it's going to discolor your vision on the majority.
 

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Zarky said:
read my sig and take it to heart
LOL you should change bitter to on Sosuave and other dating sites period. hahahaha.
 
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