"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Women´s lunacy is seen as a good thing today

JdelaSilviera

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Well, here is another lesson from facebook. It´s not enough that Oprah or Tyra endorse women´s obesity as a good thing, women are now behaving as spoiled little kids, and see that as a virtue, as feminine, as a quality that makes women special.

Most girls "like" this group on facebook: I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." — Marilyn Monroe

Stop treating women as special beings.... it´s a favour you do to the world. If men continue behaving like girls and treating women as superior gods, all of us are going to suffer the consequences. A future of even more flaky, more rude, more lunatic women.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Warrior74

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JdelaSilviera said:
Well, here is another lesson from facebook. It´s not enough that Oprah or Tyra endorse women´s obesity as a good thing, women are now behaving as spoiled little kids, and see that as a virtue, as feminine, as a quality that makes women special.

Most girls "like" this group on facebook: I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." — Marilyn Monroe

Stop treating women as special beings.... it´s a favour you do to the world. If men continue behaving like girls and treating women as superior gods, all of us are going to suffer the consequences. A future of even more flaky, more rude, more lunatic women.
One of my friends on FB who is a complete basket case and just divorced her husband because "he didn't understand my needs! (LOL her need to be bipolar, go out get drunk and hop on random ****s!) posted this on her page. I posted back.

Screw that, I want a woman who says :
I'm giving, patient and very secure. I make mistakes but learn from them, I am in control and at know how to handle myself like a responsible adult. But if I can't control myself, then I sure as hell don't deserve you" — Sane Woman
Needless to say she was not pleased. hahahaha
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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everywomanshero

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I for one do not believe women engage in a conspiracy against men lol I cannot even begin to imagine the many ways in which such a belief would hinder my life. Most women I've known want to meet someone interesting and whom they click with. I'm not sure why this is a hard thing to believe, but if you cannot see it then you probably need to spend more time hanging out with women and seeing they have lots of legitimate problems. If you spend all your time focusing on the bottom 10% of women, it's going to discolor your vision on the majority.
 

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Zarky said:
read my sig and take it to heart
LOL you should change bitter to on Sosuave and other dating sites period. hahahaha.
 
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