"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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JdelaSilviera

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Well, here is another lesson from facebook. It´s not enough that Oprah or Tyra endorse women´s obesity as a good thing, women are now behaving as spoiled little kids, and see that as a virtue, as feminine, as a quality that makes women special.

Most girls "like" this group on facebook: I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." — Marilyn Monroe

Stop treating women as special beings.... it´s a favour you do to the world. If men continue behaving like girls and treating women as superior gods, all of us are going to suffer the consequences. A future of even more flaky, more rude, more lunatic women.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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JdelaSilviera said:
Well, here is another lesson from facebook. It´s not enough that Oprah or Tyra endorse women´s obesity as a good thing, women are now behaving as spoiled little kids, and see that as a virtue, as feminine, as a quality that makes women special.

Most girls "like" this group on facebook: I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." — Marilyn Monroe

Stop treating women as special beings.... it´s a favour you do to the world. If men continue behaving like girls and treating women as superior gods, all of us are going to suffer the consequences. A future of even more flaky, more rude, more lunatic women.
One of my friends on FB who is a complete basket case and just divorced her husband because "he didn't understand my needs! (LOL her need to be bipolar, go out get drunk and hop on random ****s!) posted this on her page. I posted back.

Screw that, I want a woman who says :
I'm giving, patient and very secure. I make mistakes but learn from them, I am in control and at know how to handle myself like a responsible adult. But if I can't control myself, then I sure as hell don't deserve you" — Sane Woman
Needless to say she was not pleased. hahahaha
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I for one do not believe women engage in a conspiracy against men lol I cannot even begin to imagine the many ways in which such a belief would hinder my life. Most women I've known want to meet someone interesting and whom they click with. I'm not sure why this is a hard thing to believe, but if you cannot see it then you probably need to spend more time hanging out with women and seeing they have lots of legitimate problems. If you spend all your time focusing on the bottom 10% of women, it's going to discolor your vision on the majority.
 

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Zarky said:
read my sig and take it to heart
LOL you should change bitter to on Sosuave and other dating sites period. hahahaha.
 
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