"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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AureliusMaximus

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That said, in todays society it doesnt take a lot to be in the top 20% of men if you look around.
True indeed. Most men look like chumps and have dad bods etc. it gets even worse for guys over 40... 95% have dadbods and look like cr@p.

The recipe is "simple":
Take care of yourself, have and plan (financial etc.) and follow it through and lift heavy sheit.
But most people do not have either of these. They binge watch/consume TV and other form of entertainment and then complain over how bad their lives are.
 

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True indeed. Most men look like chumps and have dad bods etc. it gets even worse for guys over 40... 95% have dadbods and look like cr@p.

The recipe is "simple":
Take care of yourself, have and plan (financial etc.) and follow it through and lift heavy sheit.
But most people do not have either of these. They binge watch/consume TV and other form of entertainment and then complain over how bad their lives are.
Agreed, the easiest way to solve this is simply to just become part of the 20%, most don't want to make the effort.
 

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Agreed, the easiest way to solve this is simply to just become part of the 20%, most don't want to make the effort.
Most people live quiet lives of desperation.
Its a simple sad fact. The irony of it is that on the same time they do not bother to do something about it which is something I personally cannot fathom.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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