Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yeah man.. Funny enough i stumbled over this video which is on the subject too..Agree. The average women has way more sex than the average dude because she can.
If any dudebro.the average dude has little to no sex at all because, well, he's average.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
True indeed. Most men look like chumps and have dad bods etc. it gets even worse for guys over 40... 95% have dadbods and look like cr@p.That said, in todays society it doesnt take a lot to be in the top 20% of men if you look around.
The amount of brain power used by those two bimbos is astounding...
Agreed, the easiest way to solve this is simply to just become part of the 20%, most don't want to make the effort.True indeed. Most men look like chumps and have dad bods etc. it gets even worse for guys over 40... 95% have dadbods and look like cr@p.
The recipe is "simple":
Take care of yourself, have and plan (financial etc.) and follow it through and lift heavy sheit.
But most people do not have either of these. They binge watch/consume TV and other form of entertainment and then complain over how bad their lives are.
Agreed, the easiest way to solve this is simply to just become part of the 20%, most don't want to make the effort.
Its a simple sad fact. The irony of it is that on the same time they do not bother to do something about it which is something I personally cannot fathom.Most people live quiet lives of desperation.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dudebro, take a walk in the streets outside where you live...Is it really the truth? I don't know, having a good body requires time and sacrifice but I don't think most men are that bad honestly, I think this is a cope, but maybe I'm wrong