She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yeah man.. Funny enough i stumbled over this video which is on the subject too..Agree. The average women has way more sex than the average dude because she can.
If any dudebro.the average dude has little to no sex at all because, well, he's average.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
True indeed. Most men look like chumps and have dad bods etc. it gets even worse for guys over 40... 95% have dadbods and look like cr@p.That said, in todays society it doesnt take a lot to be in the top 20% of men if you look around.
The amount of brain power used by those two bimbos is astounding...
Agreed, the easiest way to solve this is simply to just become part of the 20%, most don't want to make the effort.True indeed. Most men look like chumps and have dad bods etc. it gets even worse for guys over 40... 95% have dadbods and look like cr@p.
The recipe is "simple":
Take care of yourself, have and plan (financial etc.) and follow it through and lift heavy sheit.
But most people do not have either of these. They binge watch/consume TV and other form of entertainment and then complain over how bad their lives are.
Agreed, the easiest way to solve this is simply to just become part of the 20%, most don't want to make the effort.
Its a simple sad fact. The irony of it is that on the same time they do not bother to do something about it which is something I personally cannot fathom.Most people live quiet lives of desperation.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Dudebro, take a walk in the streets outside where you live...Is it really the truth? I don't know, having a good body requires time and sacrifice but I don't think most men are that bad honestly, I think this is a cope, but maybe I'm wrong