"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AureliusMaximus

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That said, in todays society it doesnt take a lot to be in the top 20% of men if you look around.
True indeed. Most men look like chumps and have dad bods etc. it gets even worse for guys over 40... 95% have dadbods and look like cr@p.

The recipe is "simple":
Take care of yourself, have and plan (financial etc.) and follow it through and lift heavy sheit.
But most people do not have either of these. They binge watch/consume TV and other form of entertainment and then complain over how bad their lives are.
 

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True indeed. Most men look like chumps and have dad bods etc. it gets even worse for guys over 40... 95% have dadbods and look like cr@p.

The recipe is "simple":
Take care of yourself, have and plan (financial etc.) and follow it through and lift heavy sheit.
But most people do not have either of these. They binge watch/consume TV and other form of entertainment and then complain over how bad their lives are.
Agreed, the easiest way to solve this is simply to just become part of the 20%, most don't want to make the effort.
 

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Agreed, the easiest way to solve this is simply to just become part of the 20%, most don't want to make the effort.
Most people live quiet lives of desperation.
Its a simple sad fact. The irony of it is that on the same time they do not bother to do something about it which is something I personally cannot fathom.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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