"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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tatlongxxx

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Basically most women we find attractive are a hottie. But I’ve met someone who is totally my type. She has this character who like rock bands, knows arts (actually she graduated of fine arts), like to watch movies, and most of all she is boyish.

What if, you’ve met a woman who is not outgoing…???? Not interested going out with friends, always at home watching tv and playing computer games.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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You say that she's totally your type but you are asking us what we think of her? :confused:

If you don't care if she's not outgoing, not interested in going out with friends and is always at home watching tv and playing computer games so be it. One could speculate about her reclusiveness but if you are willing to deal with it, then do so. If not, don't.
 

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Exactly. Doesn't matter what we think. She's not someone who I'd be interested in but so what? It's not up to any of us to tell you if she's amazing or not. If she's your type, go for it!!!!
 

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He's saying this BECAUSE she's not his type.

This chick is LIKE him.

You are mistaken (IMHO) - If she really rocked your world, you would not have to 2nd guess your thinking on this.
 

tatlongxxx

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My point here is, we dj’s have to choose woman’s character, right?
So in this thread, I’m telling to you guys her character. Would this character be accepted in terms of being a dj?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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You've described her interests but you're confusing character with personality. They are completely different things. You're concern with her character should be solely based upon how she treats you.
 

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ok. just wanna add something....
Being mysterious is being indifferent with others, so how i am a supposed to act, what is the complete details about this?
 
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