"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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tatlongxxx

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Basically most women we find attractive are a hottie. But I’ve met someone who is totally my type. She has this character who like rock bands, knows arts (actually she graduated of fine arts), like to watch movies, and most of all she is boyish.

What if, you’ve met a woman who is not outgoing…???? Not interested going out with friends, always at home watching tv and playing computer games.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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You say that she's totally your type but you are asking us what we think of her? :confused:

If you don't care if she's not outgoing, not interested in going out with friends and is always at home watching tv and playing computer games so be it. One could speculate about her reclusiveness but if you are willing to deal with it, then do so. If not, don't.
 

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Exactly. Doesn't matter what we think. She's not someone who I'd be interested in but so what? It's not up to any of us to tell you if she's amazing or not. If she's your type, go for it!!!!
 

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He's saying this BECAUSE she's not his type.

This chick is LIKE him.

You are mistaken (IMHO) - If she really rocked your world, you would not have to 2nd guess your thinking on this.
 

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My point here is, we dj’s have to choose woman’s character, right?
So in this thread, I’m telling to you guys her character. Would this character be accepted in terms of being a dj?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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You've described her interests but you're confusing character with personality. They are completely different things. You're concern with her character should be solely based upon how she treats you.
 

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ok. just wanna add something....
Being mysterious is being indifferent with others, so how i am a supposed to act, what is the complete details about this?
 
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