"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Basically most women we find attractive are a hottie. But I’ve met someone who is totally my type. She has this character who like rock bands, knows arts (actually she graduated of fine arts), like to watch movies, and most of all she is boyish.

What if, you’ve met a woman who is not outgoing…???? Not interested going out with friends, always at home watching tv and playing computer games.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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You say that she's totally your type but you are asking us what we think of her? :confused:

If you don't care if she's not outgoing, not interested in going out with friends and is always at home watching tv and playing computer games so be it. One could speculate about her reclusiveness but if you are willing to deal with it, then do so. If not, don't.
 

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Exactly. Doesn't matter what we think. She's not someone who I'd be interested in but so what? It's not up to any of us to tell you if she's amazing or not. If she's your type, go for it!!!!
 

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He's saying this BECAUSE she's not his type.

This chick is LIKE him.

You are mistaken (IMHO) - If she really rocked your world, you would not have to 2nd guess your thinking on this.
 

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My point here is, we dj’s have to choose woman’s character, right?
So in this thread, I’m telling to you guys her character. Would this character be accepted in terms of being a dj?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You've described her interests but you're confusing character with personality. They are completely different things. You're concern with her character should be solely based upon how she treats you.
 

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ok. just wanna add something....
Being mysterious is being indifferent with others, so how i am a supposed to act, what is the complete details about this?
 
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