"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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woah. Whats the method for MILFs

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like someone once said, we want what we cant have. I've seen some milf stories on here and i need some help with the approach, lol man this feels wierd. I was at the park, and was running(cross country) when this mad hot milf jut started strolling by. The track is all curvy, so it gave some chances for me to smile at her, and i did, and she smiled back, but every other chance, i was looking at her, and she was just givin me the cold shoulder(lookin away) I tried to glance at her fingers to see if she was wearing a ring finger(couldnt tell,but the dev. next to the park are all 1-2 bedroom town houses) eventually she was done and just walked home, Im gonna start goin to the track at this time, but wtf do i say? i doubt c&F will be a good starter here.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HOw old is the girl, more or less?
 

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ARE YOU NUTS???:eek:

Actually, she will mst likely just blow you off and keep blowing you off. At most, you might get a one night stand or a short term fling.
 

wavejams007

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Platimum, how old are you? I just realized you might not be a teenager. If you are an adult, then you aren't nuts. I just realized the question of your age.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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20. So she's near double my age, i dont want an LTR or anything, i really dont even want her number. Just wanna get it on.
 

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Now I understand you. For a sec I thought that you were seriously interested with her.

Good Luck:cheer:
 

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Don't know if this helps, but during last summer, this 40+ latin lady, not ugly at all, came onto me, under the guise of being impressed with my ability to skate. So maybe if you do something to show her you are really good at something, you'll raise her IL.

In other words, try to impress her.
 

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Nah, that wouldnt help, i need to approach her, not wait for her to approach me
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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