"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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woah. Whats the method for MILFs

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like someone once said, we want what we cant have. I've seen some milf stories on here and i need some help with the approach, lol man this feels wierd. I was at the park, and was running(cross country) when this mad hot milf jut started strolling by. The track is all curvy, so it gave some chances for me to smile at her, and i did, and she smiled back, but every other chance, i was looking at her, and she was just givin me the cold shoulder(lookin away) I tried to glance at her fingers to see if she was wearing a ring finger(couldnt tell,but the dev. next to the park are all 1-2 bedroom town houses) eventually she was done and just walked home, Im gonna start goin to the track at this time, but wtf do i say? i doubt c&F will be a good starter here.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HOw old is the girl, more or less?
 

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ARE YOU NUTS???:eek:

Actually, she will mst likely just blow you off and keep blowing you off. At most, you might get a one night stand or a short term fling.
 

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Platimum, how old are you? I just realized you might not be a teenager. If you are an adult, then you aren't nuts. I just realized the question of your age.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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20. So she's near double my age, i dont want an LTR or anything, i really dont even want her number. Just wanna get it on.
 

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Now I understand you. For a sec I thought that you were seriously interested with her.

Good Luck:cheer:
 

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Don't know if this helps, but during last summer, this 40+ latin lady, not ugly at all, came onto me, under the guise of being impressed with my ability to skate. So maybe if you do something to show her you are really good at something, you'll raise her IL.

In other words, try to impress her.
 

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Nah, that wouldnt help, i need to approach her, not wait for her to approach me
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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