"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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woah. Whats the method for MILFs

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like someone once said, we want what we cant have. I've seen some milf stories on here and i need some help with the approach, lol man this feels wierd. I was at the park, and was running(cross country) when this mad hot milf jut started strolling by. The track is all curvy, so it gave some chances for me to smile at her, and i did, and she smiled back, but every other chance, i was looking at her, and she was just givin me the cold shoulder(lookin away) I tried to glance at her fingers to see if she was wearing a ring finger(couldnt tell,but the dev. next to the park are all 1-2 bedroom town houses) eventually she was done and just walked home, Im gonna start goin to the track at this time, but wtf do i say? i doubt c&F will be a good starter here.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HOw old is the girl, more or less?
 

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ARE YOU NUTS???:eek:

Actually, she will mst likely just blow you off and keep blowing you off. At most, you might get a one night stand or a short term fling.
 

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Platimum, how old are you? I just realized you might not be a teenager. If you are an adult, then you aren't nuts. I just realized the question of your age.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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20. So she's near double my age, i dont want an LTR or anything, i really dont even want her number. Just wanna get it on.
 

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Now I understand you. For a sec I thought that you were seriously interested with her.

Good Luck:cheer:
 

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Don't know if this helps, but during last summer, this 40+ latin lady, not ugly at all, came onto me, under the guise of being impressed with my ability to skate. So maybe if you do something to show her you are really good at something, you'll raise her IL.

In other words, try to impress her.
 

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Nah, that wouldnt help, i need to approach her, not wait for her to approach me
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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