Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I think it depends how close you are with your friend man...Or the situation in general..Last year me I was talking to this girl and my friend told me if it was alright for him to go after that as well, I gave him the green light cause i thought she wasnt interested in him..Guess what, he pulled it off..haha....I wasnt mad cause i just wanted to mess around with her nothing serious..WHat intentions does your friend have with her? serious? or just wants to F**** her as well..lol...so it all dependsMiguel said:All right, I need some advice. I sort of ruthlessly semi-picked up my friends prospect, not the greatest thing in the world to do, but still… if he couldn’t pull the baggage it’s not my fault! Anyways, the thing is, I don’t thinks she’s really long term into me, but still W/e, I don’t mind… but if she’s been chatting with him… problems could emerge… advice needed.
what a good friend you are.... remember not to introduce ya ass to any of ma prospects.. are you that desperate.. find another chick and leave your slow friend.Miguel said:I sort of ruthlessly semi-picked up my friends prospect, not the greatest thing in the world to do, I don’t thinks she’s really long term into me. advice needed.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.