"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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WIPFR: HBCoffee

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Meh, updates are nice.

Walked in today, she was working all the way over at drivethru, so I waved her over, she says she's backed up, I tell her to run. She comes over for a hug and tells me I'm a brat. Ha, I told her she wouldn't of done that unless she likes me, and she just looks at me with that 'shut up you! ><' look.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bah, you have your moments, Docs, but I think you need to learn to next people

or at least ganji properly
 

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It's been a while with this one hasn't it? I must agree with the obsidian here and NEXT her...or make a move before you give up.
 

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Oh, aside from yesterday, I haven't seen her or anything.

And she's already nexted. I said it from the start, approach for fun. This is one of those cases. I found out about that whole boyfriend crap, but it doesn't phase me. At the same time, I was never full on trying to get with her, so it's just a passive sort of deal.
 
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