"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Meh, updates are nice.

Walked in today, she was working all the way over at drivethru, so I waved her over, she says she's backed up, I tell her to run. She comes over for a hug and tells me I'm a brat. Ha, I told her she wouldn't of done that unless she likes me, and she just looks at me with that 'shut up you! ><' look.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bah, you have your moments, Docs, but I think you need to learn to next people

or at least ganji properly
 

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It's been a while with this one hasn't it? I must agree with the obsidian here and NEXT her...or make a move before you give up.
 

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Oh, aside from yesterday, I haven't seen her or anything.

And she's already nexted. I said it from the start, approach for fun. This is one of those cases. I found out about that whole boyfriend crap, but it doesn't phase me. At the same time, I was never full on trying to get with her, so it's just a passive sort of deal.
 
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