"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Meh, updates are nice.

Walked in today, she was working all the way over at drivethru, so I waved her over, she says she's backed up, I tell her to run. She comes over for a hug and tells me I'm a brat. Ha, I told her she wouldn't of done that unless she likes me, and she just looks at me with that 'shut up you! ><' look.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bah, you have your moments, Docs, but I think you need to learn to next people

or at least ganji properly
 

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It's been a while with this one hasn't it? I must agree with the obsidian here and NEXT her...or make a move before you give up.
 

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Oh, aside from yesterday, I haven't seen her or anything.

And she's already nexted. I said it from the start, approach for fun. This is one of those cases. I found out about that whole boyfriend crap, but it doesn't phase me. At the same time, I was never full on trying to get with her, so it's just a passive sort of deal.
 
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