"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Winks?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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no no no

winking is creepy.

the only way you can wink is in a very sly, totally joking manner with a woman that you already know. Anything else is gonna weird someone out.
 

Kineti[C]harm

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If you already got some previous raport with the girl or simular you can do a fast wink while smiling as a part joke part flirting kind of way.
 

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AFC if a guy does it!!

I've had a couple of girls in the past wink at me and it completely confused me. Like what the he!! does that suppose to mean? That they want my manhood?

My grand mother use to wink at me when I was a little kid... I have no idea what it means...
 

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If you have repoire with a girl it can deepen it i think...

Example:

I was out with this girl I've been seeing for a month or so, went up to the bar to grab a round, it was crowded and took a while... Looked back at her after 10 minutes and gave her a little wink before I got myself to the front...You could see her melt a little just because its a connection you can have from across the room...

I agree it can be VERY creepy without previous repoire, so take my advice *** grano salis.....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I dunno, I've never winked. It's kind of an obsolete social gesture.

If you express your sexuality through your tone of voice, action, and kino, a wink is hardly necessary.

;) (irony intended)
 

Reto

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Originally posted by DankNuggs
If you have repoire with a girl it can deepen it i think...

Example:

I was out with this girl I've been seeing for a month or so, went up to the bar to grab a round, it was crowded and took a while... Looked back at her after 10 minutes and gave her a little wink before I got myself to the front...You could see her melt a little just because its a connection you can have from across the room...
I can see that. It's kind of your own langueage only the two of you know...
 
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