"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Winks?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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no no no

winking is creepy.

the only way you can wink is in a very sly, totally joking manner with a woman that you already know. Anything else is gonna weird someone out.
 

Kineti[C]harm

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If you already got some previous raport with the girl or simular you can do a fast wink while smiling as a part joke part flirting kind of way.
 

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AFC if a guy does it!!

I've had a couple of girls in the past wink at me and it completely confused me. Like what the he!! does that suppose to mean? That they want my manhood?

My grand mother use to wink at me when I was a little kid... I have no idea what it means...
 

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If you have repoire with a girl it can deepen it i think...

Example:

I was out with this girl I've been seeing for a month or so, went up to the bar to grab a round, it was crowded and took a while... Looked back at her after 10 minutes and gave her a little wink before I got myself to the front...You could see her melt a little just because its a connection you can have from across the room...

I agree it can be VERY creepy without previous repoire, so take my advice *** grano salis.....
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I dunno, I've never winked. It's kind of an obsolete social gesture.

If you express your sexuality through your tone of voice, action, and kino, a wink is hardly necessary.

;) (irony intended)
 

Reto

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Originally posted by DankNuggs
If you have repoire with a girl it can deepen it i think...

Example:

I was out with this girl I've been seeing for a month or so, went up to the bar to grab a round, it was crowded and took a while... Looked back at her after 10 minutes and gave her a little wink before I got myself to the front...You could see her melt a little just because its a connection you can have from across the room...
I can see that. It's kind of your own langueage only the two of you know...
 
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