"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Winks?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Kineti[C]harm
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I've had a couple of girls in the past wink at me and it completely confused me. Like what the he!! does that suppose to mean? That they want my manhood?
My grand mother use to wink at me when I was a little kid... I have no idea what it means...
Example:
I was out with this girl I've been seeing for a month or so, went up to the bar to grab a round, it was crowded and took a while... Looked back at her after 10 minutes and gave her a little wink before I got myself to the front...You could see her melt a little just because its a connection you can have from across the room...
I agree it can be VERY creepy without previous repoire, so take my advice *** grano salis.....
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
squirrels
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If you express your sexuality through your tone of voice, action, and kino, a wink is hardly necessary.
(irony intended)