Komodo
Master Don Juan
I believe that guys should use wing girls that they trust to pickup other girls.They should be beautiful but trustworthy alot of authors seem to agree with me on this what do you guys think?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Wing women?
- Thread starter Komodo
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Shadow Dancer
Senior Don Juan
No doubt about it.
ShortyBrown
Master Don Juan
T, John, Wolfie.....whaddya think? 
Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
Do a search for a thread I started on this subject once. There were some pretty good comments & issues brought up by people who felt both ways.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Well, I'd **** this wingman in a moment.
Female wingman does not exist by definition:
If she's worth fukkin/being in a relationship, then she's a girlfriend, a fukkbuddy, a pivot or just social proof.
If she's not worth fukkin, she's not worth to wing with cause she won't attract anybody.
And even if you got a female wingman, who would you approach? Couples? Other girls for threesome? Then it's not a wingman, it's your girlfriend who wants a threesome.
Cheers
Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
Read the old thread... that'll answer that. A female wing works differently than a male wing, but the overall purpose & outcome remains the same.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
some men do not understand that women are not just genders. but honest to goodness individuals, just like your friends with pen!ses! and they can fill the same positions, homie, friend, dogg!
i feel sorry for these types and the women who size down to fit into the narrow gaps left for them.
Yeah, I know. Sometimes I feel sorry for myself too
But I find that my friends with tits are best for sexual release, while giving unreasonable amounts of trouble being "homie, friend, dogg"
My friends with penises on the other hand are much easier to work with when they have a role of "homie, friend, dogg"
Maybe I still don't have a clue about women, but my model works ok so far but experimentation never hurt.
Malibu - you need to help me here. If I want a female wingman, how do I go about offering to sarge?
The only way I could think about it is to tell her about some of the DJ principles and she would have to be willing to do that. If I imagine telling it to any girl I know, they'd be freaked out. lol
What would you suggest?