"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wing women?

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I believe that guys should use wing girls that they trust to pickup other girls.They should be beautiful but trustworthy alot of authors seem to agree with me on this what do you guys think?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No doubt about it.
 

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Do a search for a thread I started on this subject once. There were some pretty good comments & issues brought up by people who felt both ways.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ice Cold

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They should be beautiful but trustworthy...
Well, I'd **** this wingman in a moment.

Female wingman does not exist by definition:

If she's worth fukkin/being in a relationship, then she's a girlfriend, a fukkbuddy, a pivot or just social proof.

If she's not worth fukkin, she's not worth to wing with cause she won't attract anybody.


And even if you got a female wingman, who would you approach? Couples? Other girls for threesome? Then it's not a wingman, it's your girlfriend who wants a threesome.

Cheers
 

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Originally posted by Ice Cold
Well, I'd **** this wingman in a moment.

Female wingman does not exist by definition:

If she's worth fukkin/being in a relationship, then she's a girlfriend, a fukkbuddy, a pivot or just social proof.

If she's not worth fukkin, she's not worth to wing with cause she won't attract anybody.


And even if you got a female wingman, who would you approach? Couples? Other girls for threesome? Then it's not a wingman, it's your girlfriend who wants a threesome.

Cheers
Read the old thread... that'll answer that. A female wing works differently than a male wing, but the overall purpose & outcome remains the same. :D
 

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Originally posted by Ice Cold
If she's worth fukkin/being in a relationship, then she's a girlfriend, a fukkbuddy, a pivot or just social proof.

If she's not worth fukkin, she's not worth to wing with cause she won't attract anybody.
some men do not understand that women are not just genders. but honest to goodness individuals, just like your friends with pen!ses! and they can fill the same positions, homie, friend, dogg!

i feel sorry for these types and the women who size down to fit into the narrow gaps left for them.
 

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Originally posted by iqqi
i feel sorry for these types and the women who size down to fit into the narrow gaps left for them.
Yeah, I know. Sometimes I feel sorry for myself too :)

But I find that my friends with tits are best for sexual release, while giving unreasonable amounts of trouble being "homie, friend, dogg"

My friends with penises on the other hand are much easier to work with when they have a role of "homie, friend, dogg"

Maybe I still don't have a clue about women, but my model works ok so far but experimentation never hurt.


Malibu - you need to help me here. If I want a female wingman, how do I go about offering to sarge? :)

The only way I could think about it is to tell her about some of the DJ principles and she would have to be willing to do that. If I imagine telling it to any girl I know, they'd be freaked out. lol

What would you suggest?
 
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