"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I believe that guys should use wing girls that they trust to pickup other girls.They should be beautiful but trustworthy alot of authors seem to agree with me on this what do you guys think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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No doubt about it.
 

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Do a search for a thread I started on this subject once. There were some pretty good comments & issues brought up by people who felt both ways.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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They should be beautiful but trustworthy...
Well, I'd **** this wingman in a moment.

Female wingman does not exist by definition:

If she's worth fukkin/being in a relationship, then she's a girlfriend, a fukkbuddy, a pivot or just social proof.

If she's not worth fukkin, she's not worth to wing with cause she won't attract anybody.


And even if you got a female wingman, who would you approach? Couples? Other girls for threesome? Then it's not a wingman, it's your girlfriend who wants a threesome.

Cheers
 

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Originally posted by Ice Cold
Well, I'd **** this wingman in a moment.

Female wingman does not exist by definition:

If she's worth fukkin/being in a relationship, then she's a girlfriend, a fukkbuddy, a pivot or just social proof.

If she's not worth fukkin, she's not worth to wing with cause she won't attract anybody.


And even if you got a female wingman, who would you approach? Couples? Other girls for threesome? Then it's not a wingman, it's your girlfriend who wants a threesome.

Cheers
Read the old thread... that'll answer that. A female wing works differently than a male wing, but the overall purpose & outcome remains the same. :D
 

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Originally posted by Ice Cold
If she's worth fukkin/being in a relationship, then she's a girlfriend, a fukkbuddy, a pivot or just social proof.

If she's not worth fukkin, she's not worth to wing with cause she won't attract anybody.
some men do not understand that women are not just genders. but honest to goodness individuals, just like your friends with pen!ses! and they can fill the same positions, homie, friend, dogg!

i feel sorry for these types and the women who size down to fit into the narrow gaps left for them.
 

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Originally posted by iqqi
i feel sorry for these types and the women who size down to fit into the narrow gaps left for them.
Yeah, I know. Sometimes I feel sorry for myself too :)

But I find that my friends with tits are best for sexual release, while giving unreasonable amounts of trouble being "homie, friend, dogg"

My friends with penises on the other hand are much easier to work with when they have a role of "homie, friend, dogg"

Maybe I still don't have a clue about women, but my model works ok so far but experimentation never hurt.


Malibu - you need to help me here. If I want a female wingman, how do I go about offering to sarge? :)

The only way I could think about it is to tell her about some of the DJ principles and she would have to be willing to do that. If I imagine telling it to any girl I know, they'd be freaked out. lol

What would you suggest?
 
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