"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wing women?

Komodo

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I believe that guys should use wing girls that they trust to pickup other girls.They should be beautiful but trustworthy alot of authors seem to agree with me on this what do you guys think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No doubt about it.
 

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Do a search for a thread I started on this subject once. There were some pretty good comments & issues brought up by people who felt both ways.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ice Cold

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They should be beautiful but trustworthy...
Well, I'd **** this wingman in a moment.

Female wingman does not exist by definition:

If she's worth fukkin/being in a relationship, then she's a girlfriend, a fukkbuddy, a pivot or just social proof.

If she's not worth fukkin, she's not worth to wing with cause she won't attract anybody.


And even if you got a female wingman, who would you approach? Couples? Other girls for threesome? Then it's not a wingman, it's your girlfriend who wants a threesome.

Cheers
 

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Originally posted by Ice Cold
Well, I'd **** this wingman in a moment.

Female wingman does not exist by definition:

If she's worth fukkin/being in a relationship, then she's a girlfriend, a fukkbuddy, a pivot or just social proof.

If she's not worth fukkin, she's not worth to wing with cause she won't attract anybody.


And even if you got a female wingman, who would you approach? Couples? Other girls for threesome? Then it's not a wingman, it's your girlfriend who wants a threesome.

Cheers
Read the old thread... that'll answer that. A female wing works differently than a male wing, but the overall purpose & outcome remains the same. :D
 

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Originally posted by Ice Cold
If she's worth fukkin/being in a relationship, then she's a girlfriend, a fukkbuddy, a pivot or just social proof.

If she's not worth fukkin, she's not worth to wing with cause she won't attract anybody.
some men do not understand that women are not just genders. but honest to goodness individuals, just like your friends with pen!ses! and they can fill the same positions, homie, friend, dogg!

i feel sorry for these types and the women who size down to fit into the narrow gaps left for them.
 

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Originally posted by iqqi
i feel sorry for these types and the women who size down to fit into the narrow gaps left for them.
Yeah, I know. Sometimes I feel sorry for myself too :)

But I find that my friends with tits are best for sexual release, while giving unreasonable amounts of trouble being "homie, friend, dogg"

My friends with penises on the other hand are much easier to work with when they have a role of "homie, friend, dogg"

Maybe I still don't have a clue about women, but my model works ok so far but experimentation never hurt.


Malibu - you need to help me here. If I want a female wingman, how do I go about offering to sarge? :)

The only way I could think about it is to tell her about some of the DJ principles and she would have to be willing to do that. If I imagine telling it to any girl I know, they'd be freaked out. lol

What would you suggest?
 
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