"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Will power.

LikRetsam

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Will power to do something is not to be able to stop what you're doing and do what you need to do. It's to constantly dedicate yourself to achieving what you are trying to do. Studying for a test and getting a good grade. Great, short term memory kicked in and one week later it's all gone. You haven't learned anything.

Do something completly or don't do it at all. This goes for whatever section of your life. You don't half seduce, you don't half DJ you don't half play. It's all or nothing.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Do something completly or don't do it at all. This goes for whatever section of your life. You don't half seduce, you don't half DJ you don't half play. It's all or nothing.
Damn strait Lik, being a don juan is not cramming for a test, its learning a skill that you'll use for the rest of the time AND USING IT!

I need to use my skill more than I am :(, stupid school and being busy...


*Insert LOL MODS HAVE NO LIFE JOKE here
 

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Studying for a test and getting a good grade. Great, short term memory kicked in and one week later it's all gone. You haven't learned anything.
I don't get it. Is that a good thing or a bad thing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Vincent

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Originally posted by October
I don't get it. Is that a good thing or a bad thing.
Bad.
 

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Do something completly or don't do it at all. This goes for whatever section of your life. You don't half seduce, you don't half DJ you don't half play. It's all or nothing.
It's always nice when your advice lines up with a jedi master's. :)
 

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pretty much "all or nothing"

as for me becoming a dj thats so true but i use a litte differnt slogan

"crash and burn"

im look that im gonna crash, so i might as well have a jolly good time going down! (dealing with rejection, works like a charm)
 

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Originally posted by Carnegie
Short and Sweet, I like it.
i agreed
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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