"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Will power.

LikRetsam

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 30, 2003
Messages
1,633
Reaction score
1
Will power to do something is not to be able to stop what you're doing and do what you need to do. It's to constantly dedicate yourself to achieving what you are trying to do. Studying for a test and getting a good grade. Great, short term memory kicked in and one week later it's all gone. You haven't learned anything.

Do something completly or don't do it at all. This goes for whatever section of your life. You don't half seduce, you don't half DJ you don't half play. It's all or nothing.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Vincent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2002
Messages
3,595
Reaction score
5
Age
40
Originally posted by LikRetsam
Do something completly or don't do it at all. This goes for whatever section of your life. You don't half seduce, you don't half DJ you don't half play. It's all or nothing.
Damn strait Lik, being a don juan is not cramming for a test, its learning a skill that you'll use for the rest of the time AND USING IT!

I need to use my skill more than I am :(, stupid school and being busy...


*Insert LOL MODS HAVE NO LIFE JOKE here
 

October

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 5, 2004
Messages
209
Reaction score
0
Age
38
Location
Hawaii
Studying for a test and getting a good grade. Great, short term memory kicked in and one week later it's all gone. You haven't learned anything.
I don't get it. Is that a good thing or a bad thing.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Vincent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2002
Messages
3,595
Reaction score
5
Age
40
Originally posted by October
I don't get it. Is that a good thing or a bad thing.
Bad.
 

Zadig

New Member
Joined
Dec 22, 2004
Messages
6
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by LikRetsam
Do something completly or don't do it at all. This goes for whatever section of your life. You don't half seduce, you don't half DJ you don't half play. It's all or nothing.
It's always nice when your advice lines up with a jedi master's. :)
 

Fenderules

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 31, 2003
Messages
873
Reaction score
1
Age
40
Location
Alberta
pretty much "all or nothing"

as for me becoming a dj thats so true but i use a litte differnt slogan

"crash and burn"

im look that im gonna crash, so i might as well have a jolly good time going down! (dealing with rejection, works like a charm)
 

hacx

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 28, 2004
Messages
135
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by Carnegie
Short and Sweet, I like it.
i agreed
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Top