"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Will power.

LikRetsam

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Will power to do something is not to be able to stop what you're doing and do what you need to do. It's to constantly dedicate yourself to achieving what you are trying to do. Studying for a test and getting a good grade. Great, short term memory kicked in and one week later it's all gone. You haven't learned anything.

Do something completly or don't do it at all. This goes for whatever section of your life. You don't half seduce, you don't half DJ you don't half play. It's all or nothing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Do something completly or don't do it at all. This goes for whatever section of your life. You don't half seduce, you don't half DJ you don't half play. It's all or nothing.
Damn strait Lik, being a don juan is not cramming for a test, its learning a skill that you'll use for the rest of the time AND USING IT!

I need to use my skill more than I am :(, stupid school and being busy...


*Insert LOL MODS HAVE NO LIFE JOKE here
 

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Studying for a test and getting a good grade. Great, short term memory kicked in and one week later it's all gone. You haven't learned anything.
I don't get it. Is that a good thing or a bad thing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by October
I don't get it. Is that a good thing or a bad thing.
Bad.
 

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Do something completly or don't do it at all. This goes for whatever section of your life. You don't half seduce, you don't half DJ you don't half play. It's all or nothing.
It's always nice when your advice lines up with a jedi master's. :)
 

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pretty much "all or nothing"

as for me becoming a dj thats so true but i use a litte differnt slogan

"crash and burn"

im look that im gonna crash, so i might as well have a jolly good time going down! (dealing with rejection, works like a charm)
 

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Originally posted by Carnegie
Short and Sweet, I like it.
i agreed
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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