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Will cuckoldry become the norm?

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Reading a lot of Rollo tommasi recently. He pointed out a few things in his book 'Positive masculinity'
  1. Resistance to allowing men access to DNA testing
  2. The legal system holding non biological farthers liable for children they did'nt sire.
  3. Out of wedlock birth rates (41%)
  4. Assign legal fartherhood to whomever a woman says is the farther.

He also quotes as saying ' genders divided by feminism or feminine social primary will need a 'customised' form of cuckoldry that allows for the alpha fu*ks side of hypergamy to be reconciled with the beta bucks side by enlisting different
men for either purpose. What this amounts to is a socially engineered, socially acceptable, subversion of men's evolved need to verify paternity'

Do you think this will happen?
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Reading a lot of Rollo tommasi recently. He pointed out a few things in his book 'Positive masculinity'
  1. Resistance to allowing men access to DNA testing
  2. The legal system holding non biological farthers liable for children they did'nt sire.
  3. Out of wedlock birth rates (41%)
  4. Assign legal fartherhood to whomever a woman says is the farther.

He also quotes as saying ' genders divided by feminism or feminine social primary wil need a 'customised' form of cuckoldry that allows for the alpha fu*ks side of hypergamy to be reconciled with the beta bucks side by enlisting differnet men for either purpose. What this amounts to is a socially engineered, socially acceptable, subversion of men's evolved need to verify paternity'

Do you think this will happen?
Many men are avoiding marriage. So no.
 

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I quote this post because it's interesting how women in the digital world have more power than men.
 

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We're already in a soft cuck world. Feminism and woke politics, divorce courts, alimony, child custody, abortions as a 'woman's right' etc.

Men have conceded so much frame and continue to do so. I don't see this getting any better unless men stop cucking.
 

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's BEEN "the norm" for several decades. Same way not getting especially far in one's career(s)is "the norm" for most folks. "Success" almost always requires that one experience discomfort and loss* along the way, thus most folks choose to NOT do what it takes


*It's not a coincidence that most men who've prospered have a divorce on their record + At least a couple of nasty fallouts with former colleagues that went public
 

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I’m still unsure why seducers complain about these.
Anything pushing for gynocentrism universally is like conceding frame by default, and all of the things I mentioned go hand in hand. Sure, the enlightened man will have an advantage over the masses of blue pill idiots, but this is like putting fluoride in the water and expecting good results. Even first wave feminism, I honestly don't care if women can vote; their track record speaks for itself. This isn't an attack on women, but I'd rather see patriarchy without woke retardation.
 

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We're already in a soft cuck world. Feminism and woke politics, divorce courts, alimony, child custody, abortions as a 'woman's right' etc.

Men have conceded so much frame and continue to do so. I don't see this getting any better unless men stop cucking.
"woke meaning




"Woke" refers to
being actively aware of and attentive to important facts and social issues, particularly injustice, racism, and inequality. Originating in African American Vernacular English (AAVE), it initially meant staying vigilant against racial prejudice, but has evolved into a broader term for progressive social awareness and is now frequently used as a political pejorative. "

I'm politely gonna ask you to stop with the political jabs. You are trying to start arguments that are not allowed.

Perhaps you don't know that political topics are NOT allowed. It's clear you're an angry white incel who believes he is less of a man despite having had the advantage of being a white male in a predominantly white country.q Save me your sob story and man the F up. Maybe your attitude is the reason women ignore you. If you want to have " rights"" to get a woman you might wanna convert to become the "Muhammad " you actually hate with a passion. The difference in thinking between Muhammad and an AFC like you isn't that big..you both just wanna control women knowing you are inferior and without social or economic pressure you'll remain an incel for LIFE.
 

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"woke meaning




"Woke" refers to
being actively aware of and attentive to important facts and social issues, particularly injustice, racism, and inequality. Originating in African American Vernacular English (AAVE), it initially meant staying vigilant against racial prejudice, but has evolved into a broader term for progressive social awareness and is now frequently used as a political pejorative. "

I'm politely gonna ask you to stop with the political jabs. You are trying to start arguments that are not allowed.

Perhaps you don't know that political topics are NOT allowed. It's clear you are a angry white incel who believes he is less of a man despite having had the advantage of being a white male in a predominantly white country. Save me your sob story and man the F up. Maybe your attitude is the reason women ignore you.
You're the only one who's angry here. ;)

If you don't like my sardonic humour I don't care. Whether you like it or not, intergender dynamics are relevant when people think screwing men over is necessary to right perceived previous wrongs against women. I will never advocate social justice at the expense of real justice; to do so is absolutely blue pill conditioning.

I've come to this forum for entertainment and interaction and to see if there's any new useful information here, not because of any inferiority complex. When did I ever say women ignore me? I have no idea what you are even referring to. You must be projecting.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You're the only one who's angry here. ;)

If you don't like my sardonic humour I don't care. Whether you like it or not, intergender dynamics are relevant when people think screwing men over is necessary to right perceived previous wrongs against women. I will never advocate social justice at the expense of real justice; to do so is absolutely blue pill conditioning.

I've come to this forum for entertainment and interaction and to see if there's any new useful information here, not because of any inferiority complex. When did I ever say women ignore me? I have no idea what you are even referring to. You must be projecting.
I'm projecting? Correct me if I'm wrong, but you are the one who who tries to slip in politics in every post you make. Really sneaky and covert as weak men like you do everything . And pfcourse YOU are the victim as usual.

I do like you're humor. Hope you can appreciate mine as well.

Awwwh our little boy feels screwed over by papa government. How sad. Can we get a really small violin to play a sad song for this man?

This forum doesn't allow politics. So now you know. Next time keep politics out of it. Bon dias senor.
 

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This isn't an attack on women, but I'd rather see patriarchy without woke retardation
Men should realize that what gave us “sexual liberation” was feminism, which allows us to game, seduce, and fvck numerous women and have numerous “relationships”. This is matriarchal mating. The foremost aims of feminism are sexual freedom and total control of reproduction. So I don’t see why Don Juans complain about feminism.

In patriarchies, including those with polygamy, women are restrained, and thereby the men are sexually restrained. That is, men have authority over who approaches their young daughters and wives and the men who overstep this boundary without permission are dealt with. So there is no “game” or “relationships”.

So men have to pick either one.

The female vote has been disastrous.
 

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I'm projecting? Correct me if I'm wrong, but you are the one who who tries to slip in politics in every post you make. Really sneaky and covert as weak men like you do everything . And pfcourse YOU are the victim as usual.

I do like you're humor. Hope you can appreciate mine as well.

Awwwh our little boy feels screwed over by papa government. How sad. Can we get a really small violin to play a sad song for this man?

This forum doesn't allow politics. So now you know. Next time keep politics out of it. Bon dias senor.
My God, man! You're embarassing yourself with these waterworks.

Go have yourself a wank and let it all out. Let out that gamma energy!
 

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Men should realize that what gave us “sexual liberation” was feminism, which allows us to game, seduce, and fvck numerous women and have numerous “relationships”. This is matriarchal mating. The foremost aims of feminism are sexual freedom and total control of reproduction. So I don’t see why Don Juans complain about feminism.

In patriarchies, including those with polygamy, women are restrained, and thereby the men are sexually restrained. That is, men have authority over who approaches their young daughters and wives and the men who overstep this boundary without permission are dealt with. So there is no “game” or “relationships”.

So men have to pick either one.

The female vote has been disastrous.
I think patriarchy can exist in different forms: secular, pagan, Christian, muslim or something else.

I understand where you are coming from though, regarding feminism and the 'feminine imperative' versus traditional religions and 50s vs 60s.

Christianity, albeit patriarchal, gave women a kind dignity complementary to men, and things slowly evolved into chivalry and eventually modern blue pill conditioning and passivity. Men ceded too much frame, but I think that game today is also partially a response to giving women too much control.
 

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My God, man! You're embarassing yourself with these waterworks.

Go have yourself a wank and let it all out. Let out that gamma energy!
Always funny how dudes like you are " just a chill guy" when they get pushback and simultaneously trying to spread hate and division. Pick a team and stick with it. If yiu care about embarrassment perhaps you should read your own posts back...nothing to be proud of.

You've been called out for being a covert racist incel, aka the TRUE reason why society is on the brinks of collapse. Weak men like you.

Follow your own advice, keep your pathetic politics to yourself and live life to the fullest.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think patriarchy can exist in different forms: secular, pagan, Christian, muslim or something else.

I understand where you are coming from though, regarding feminism and the 'feminine imperative' versus traditional religions and 50s vs 60s.

Christianity, albeit patriarchal, gave women a kind dignity complementary to men, and things slowly evolved into chivalry and eventually modern blue pill conditioning and passivity. Men ceded too much frame, but I think that game today is also partially a response to giving women too much control.
I can guarantee you get no p00sy. At all.
 

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50s vs 60s.
These are two decades which were actually not traditional.
I think patriarchy can exist in different forms: secular, pagan, Christian, muslim or something else.
Obviously.
Men ceded too much frame, but I think that game today is also partially a response to giving women too much control.
It’s a response to the lack of institutions that fostered authentic marriage, which in itself was patriarchal for thousands of years.

Dating and gaming is only about a hundred years old.
 

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Always funny how dudes like you are " just a chill guy" when they get pushback and simultaneously trying to spread hate and division. Pick a team and stick with it. If yiu care about embarrassment perhaps you should read your own posts back...nothing to be proud of.

You've been called out for being a covert racist incel, aka the TRUE reason why society is on the brinks of collapse. Weak men like you.

Follow your own advice, keep your pathetic politics to yourself and live life to the fullest.
Ok, I admit it; it was me. I ended western civilization! :D

You take the internet too seriously if you are getting this triggered. Take a break, maybe some meds.

Little man, those lifts in your shoes aren't convinving anyone. But go on, buy a big truck and make sure it's got a booster seat so everyone can see you coming. Announce it to the world!
 
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I can guarantee you get no p00sy. At all.
Really, this is liddle d!ck energy from you. You clearly haven't found the right hole if you found something with p00 in it.

Stop derailing the thread with your outbursts.
 

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These are two decades which were actually not traditional.
Obviously.

It’s a response to the lack of institutions that fostered authentic marriage, which in itself was patriarchal for thousands of years.

Dating and gaming is only about a hundred years old.
I meant that the 60s signal a massive turn for many reasons. I do not believe that the 50s represent idealized Christianity like many think but nevertheless the juxtaposition is justified.

My point is that I understand that you are pointing to history to make your case, but patriarchy is the universal rule regardless of race, ethnicity, culture, era etc. It can exist in many forms. The Bible is an example that contrasts differing attitudes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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