Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Sure.. The girl who is a little cautious about swallowing your jiz, then possibly ending up with a disease that could effect her for years down the line.. She is definitely worthless right.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Pretty sure any STD is significantly more problematic than Covid.
As long as it is not required to be on a plane, I'm good. If they make it to where you will be outcasted from society (concerts, farmers market, grocery stores, etc), then we have a problem.
They'll say that to guys that they're not interested in along with their usual excuses.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That's not a bad idea, just be aware there is a minority of females who feel the opposite about it.
You have a good point there. Women are good at making excuses, even flimsy ones.
An excuse is an excuse. A good one just means she's smart or a more cunning manipulator.
One flimsy excuse that I got in the late 2010s was the following....
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You have some good memories with other women though right since 2010? Any great memories or encounters that stand out? For example, because I had such an amazing time in 2012 with an ex-gf, that made up for everything that happened prior to meeting her. I've yet to met someone to pick-up the slack for the modern times of dry-spell blahs.
Toronto is the problem here.
Toronto is one of the worst cities in North America for heterosexual, masculine men.
If you look at the whole 20+ years of my experiences, I have accomplished good things as well as endured massive emotional traumas. I like where things with a current woman in my life.
I also noticed the same on the line for my 1st shot on Wednesday, since there was a very large number of people in their 20s, including girls.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
