Wife Sharing

[Zipppy]

Some good trolling going on here, gotta give the man credit for that.

It's not trolling....I'm new here and maybe you are plagued with trolls, I don't know, but I am not one of them.

 

[The Duke]

Let me share another story involving one of the 4 couples that I mentioned earlier.....this couple lost some "spark" in their marriage and were looking to get it back. They both thought it would be fun to bring another man into the relationship. The husband was pushing for it as usual. The woman was going along with it, but in the back of her mind she wasn't exactly happy with her husband. Then along comes UncleHowie. I end up hooking up with this girl. She used to wait on me outside my gym and go to my house for sex. She would call her husband and say she was going to be late coming home because she was out shopping. The whole time they were on the phone, I had my fingers between her legs. She would text me all day long. She was buying me gifts. All I was doing was giving her great sex. This girl tries to lock me down into some sort of a relationship and leave her husband so I stop seeing her.

Next thing I know, she tells her husband that she wants a 3some with me and him. He is all excited about the idea, and I decline. A few weeks later the story comes out. She ends up telling him that she was cheating on him with me. Their marriage is now having some huge issues.

You do not open that door with a woman. They are loyal only to their emotions, and you better hope the emotional bond she has with you is a strong one.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Let me share another story involving one of the 4 couples that I mentioned earlier.....this couple lost some "spark" in their marriage and were looking to get it back. They both thought it would be fun to bring another man into the relationship. The husband was pushing for it as usual. The woman was going along with it, but in the back of her mind she wasn't exactly happy with her husband. Then along comes UncleHowie. I end up hooking up with this girl. She used to wait on me outside my gym and go to my house for sex. She would call her husband and say she was going to be late coming home because she was out shopping. The whole time they were on the phone, I had my fingers between her legs. She would text me all day long. She was buying me gifts. All I was doing was giving her great sex. This girl tries to lock me down into some sort of a relationship and leave her husband so I stop seeing her.

Next thing I know, she tells her husband that she wants a 3some with me and him. He is all excited about the idea, and I decline. A few weeks later the story comes out. She ends up telling him that she was cheating on him with me. Their marriage is now having some huge issues.

You do not open that door with a woman. They are loyal only to their emotions, and you better hope the emotional bond she has with you is a strong one.

The sex alters the emotional bond. The c0ck that they are taking the most has the strongest bond.

 

[Zipppy]

Again food for thought Howie, I think it's only wise to comprehend doing this anyway if you are both in total agreement. I've read on many occasions the man pushes the women into it and ends up going sour. In our case her immediate response when I suggested this was no, so that's really the end of it as far as I'm concerned.
My original thoughts would be with someone we met on vacation (or similar) not someone in our social circle, or that we would see regularly.

 

[RickTheToad]

Let me share another story involving one of the 4 couples that I mentioned earlier.....this couple lost some "spark" in their marriage and were looking to get it back. They both thought it would be fun to bring another man into the relationship. The husband was pushing for it as usual. The woman was going along with it, but in the back of her mind she wasn't exactly happy with her husband. Then along comes UncleHowie. I end up hooking up with this girl. She used to wait on me outside my gym and go to my house for sex. She would call her husband and say she was going to be late coming home because she was out shopping. The whole time they were on the phone, I had my fingers between her legs. She would text me all day long. She was buying me gifts. All I was doing was giving her great sex. This girl tries to lock me down into some sort of a relationship and leave her husband so I stop seeing her.

Next thing I know, she tells her husband that she wants a 3some with me and him. He is all excited about the idea, and I decline. A few weeks later the story comes out. She ends up telling him that she was cheating on him with me. Their marriage is now having some huge issues.

You do not open that door with a woman. They are loyal only to their emotions, and you better hope the emotional bond she has with you is a strong one.

Bad karma dude. You should never mess with another man's property, I mean lady.

 

[soulforge]

Let me share another story involving one of the 4 couples that I mentioned earlier.....this couple lost some "spark" in their marriage and were looking to get it back. They both thought it would be fun to bring another man into the relationship. The husband was pushing for it as usual. The woman was going along with it, but in the back of her mind she wasn't exactly happy with her husband. Then along comes UncleHowie. I end up hooking up with this girl. She used to wait on me outside my gym and go to my house for sex. She would call her husband and say she was going to be late coming home because she was out shopping. The whole time they were on the phone, I had my fingers between her legs. She would text me all day long. She was buying me gifts. All I was doing was giving her great sex. This girl tries to lock me down into some sort of a relationship and leave her husband so I stop seeing her.

Next thing I know, she tells her husband that she wants a 3some with me and him. He is all excited about the idea, and I decline. A few weeks later the story comes out. She ends up telling him that she was cheating on him with me. Their marriage is now having some huge issues.

You do not open that door with a woman. They are loyal only to their emotions, and you better hope the emotional bond she has with you is a strong one.

Exactly why this type of activity is better with a Fuk buddy or plate..

Infact its much more fun with a plate, as you don't really give that much of a fuk about the end consequences.

 

[YourGreatestFear]

I'm curious what other peoples thoughts are on sharing your wife in a threesome with another guy? We are a couple that have been together for 8+ years, very happily married and have a great sex life together, however, there is one sexual fantasy I would like to become reality. I've always been a bit of a sexual deviant and like to push the limits of sexual boundaries, something we both really enjoy. One thing I really love is when my wife plays with a lifelike dildo pretending it's from another guy (I won't go into details but you get the picture). I've played with the idea of putting this into reality and eventually asked my wife if she would be willing to try it out....but the answer was a resounding NO! Fantasy is one thing, reality is another....and I would certainly not in a million years try to force her to do anything she didn't completely want to do. She is much younger than I am and stunningly good looking (I am not...lol) and I know I should be very happy with what I have and forget it, but the idea of another guy participating in a threesome with us is for me the biggest turn on ever. Oddly enough (or not) I have absolutely no desire for a threesome with another female. while this is often regarded as the ultimate male fantasy.

It is normal to have such fantasy, specially after many years of having sex with your wife, when there is no much things what could bring new emotions and passion into the sex. But the reason why people advice against it is what you could lose part of your value in her head and, as results, lose her as well. It is possible to avoid it in case when you are sharing her from dominant position when you are in complete control of both her and other guy, but it is something you could do with a sexfriend/plate, not with a wife, because a wife supposed to be your equal if your relationships worked fine for so long and she taking a part in decision making.

For example in relationships where you don't really care about a girl and she supposed to accept anything you want or lose you to other woman then even if you share her with other guys she will accept it, after all your relationships are not equal and you have much more control. In your case things just wouldn't work like this. Even if you share her with someone who isn't as good as you it, in a way, could make her a green light to cheat secretly with someone she will consider as better than you.

Yeah like her realizing they are a hell of a lot better in the bedroom than OP and her starting to do this stuff without you.

You would be surprised but there are multiple Japanese porn games with plot exactly like this, lol.