Beta mindset. Subconsciously you don’t think you are man enough for your wife so you want some other dude to pound her good. Lose this fantasy and adopt one where you are pounding multiple women at the same time because they all want your amazing cawk.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Wife Sharing
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
RickTheToad
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Become a swinger.. After a few fvcks with other dudes, she'll file for divorce. I never understood why and man would allow, yes ladies, ALLOW, their wife to screw other guys. If that was the plan, then don't get fvckin married. Jesus. We're heading so fast to hell in a hand basket, it's not even funny... It's just a shame.
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You THINK you have a very strong relationship.
Woman are fantastic at creating that illusion in a mans head.
Wait till she takes another mans dik, then you will start to see the Chameleon.
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I know of 4 personal examples of married couples bringing another man into the relationship and it not ending well. Every one of the couples were divorced within 3yrs. And it all cases, the husband was on the beta side and was oblivious when it came to understanding women.
Only men can sport fuhk and not be effected. Women are not capable. Its because sex is more mental to women than men. A woman should have all of her needs met thru HER man, not ANOTHER man.
My exwife is the 5th couple I know of. Her husband was much like the OP. They have messed around with 2 different guys. Once again her husband is beta and oblivious. She runs the show and definitely doesn't love her husband like a good wife does. If she did, she would have said no to other men. Time will tell if this relationship will stay together.
OP-you are lucky your wife said no, you just don't know it. Deep down she probably lost some respect for you, simply by your asking.
Only men can sport fuhk and not be effected. Women are not capable. Its because sex is more mental to women than men. A woman should have all of her needs met thru HER man, not ANOTHER man.
My exwife is the 5th couple I know of. Her husband was much like the OP. They have messed around with 2 different guys. Once again her husband is beta and oblivious. She runs the show and definitely doesn't love her husband like a good wife does. If she did, she would have said no to other men. Time will tell if this relationship will stay together.
OP-you are lucky your wife said no, you just don't know it. Deep down she probably lost some respect for you, simply by your asking.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
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Listen to Howie... So when we attempt to bypass traditional and natural masculinity it doesn't work. Natural masculinity wouldn't share a woman he imprinted as his.
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100% troll thread
Definitely food for thought, although I lean more towards more the Alpha than the Beta side. It's just a horny fantasy and shouldn't be over analyzed, however, the potential consequences can't be analyzed enough.
No, it's really not...I assure you.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
No, really I'm not.....its a genuine post.
I don't have a game plan as such, but as I said in my original post if she's not up for it I'm definitely not going to press the issue.....in other words it will just remain as a fantasy and that's ok.
I don't expect the desire to increase. Many people can't get their heads round how someone could love their wife and want to do this....or confuse macho with masculinity. ..or cuckold with wife sharing.
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Well yeah, three pages of people telling you how much of a wh*re she will turn into when you stated in your first post that she said no anyway, so maybe see what other kinky fantasies of yours she can try that doesn’t involve a third person
.I guess that's an attempt at humor, either that or you're totally clueless?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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It's humour buddy.. What was you expecting, when your offering up your wife to be used as a cvm bucket.
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A ****buddy once told me that she knew a couple who did that and after a while the wife fell in love with the other guy. A former girlfriend once told me that she would be afraid to try such a thing because she believed that she would fall in love with the other dude.
mrgoodstuff
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Hit ***** consistently for 3 wk or so itll get attached.
You just confirmed you're totally clueless...lol
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.