Beta mindset. Subconsciously you don’t think you are man enough for your wife so you want some other dude to pound her good. Lose this fantasy and adopt one where you are pounding multiple women at the same time because they all want your amazing cawk.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Wife Sharing
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
RickTheToad
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Become a swinger.. After a few fvcks with other dudes, she'll file for divorce. I never understood why and man would allow, yes ladies, ALLOW, their wife to screw other guys. If that was the plan, then don't get fvckin married. Jesus. We're heading so fast to hell in a hand basket, it's not even funny... It's just a shame.
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You THINK you have a very strong relationship.
Woman are fantastic at creating that illusion in a mans head.
Wait till she takes another mans dik, then you will start to see the Chameleon.
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I know of 4 personal examples of married couples bringing another man into the relationship and it not ending well. Every one of the couples were divorced within 3yrs. And it all cases, the husband was on the beta side and was oblivious when it came to understanding women.
Only men can sport fuhk and not be effected. Women are not capable. Its because sex is more mental to women than men. A woman should have all of her needs met thru HER man, not ANOTHER man.
My exwife is the 5th couple I know of. Her husband was much like the OP. They have messed around with 2 different guys. Once again her husband is beta and oblivious. She runs the show and definitely doesn't love her husband like a good wife does. If she did, she would have said no to other men. Time will tell if this relationship will stay together.
OP-you are lucky your wife said no, you just don't know it. Deep down she probably lost some respect for you, simply by your asking.
Only men can sport fuhk and not be effected. Women are not capable. Its because sex is more mental to women than men. A woman should have all of her needs met thru HER man, not ANOTHER man.
My exwife is the 5th couple I know of. Her husband was much like the OP. They have messed around with 2 different guys. Once again her husband is beta and oblivious. She runs the show and definitely doesn't love her husband like a good wife does. If she did, she would have said no to other men. Time will tell if this relationship will stay together.
OP-you are lucky your wife said no, you just don't know it. Deep down she probably lost some respect for you, simply by your asking.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
mrgoodstuff
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Listen to Howie... So when we attempt to bypass traditional and natural masculinity it doesn't work. Natural masculinity wouldn't share a woman he imprinted as his.
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100% troll thread
Definitely food for thought, although I lean more towards more the Alpha than the Beta side. It's just a horny fantasy and shouldn't be over analyzed, however, the potential consequences can't be analyzed enough.
No, it's really not...I assure you.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
No, really I'm not.....its a genuine post.
I don't have a game plan as such, but as I said in my original post if she's not up for it I'm definitely not going to press the issue.....in other words it will just remain as a fantasy and that's ok.
I don't expect the desire to increase. Many people can't get their heads round how someone could love their wife and want to do this....or confuse macho with masculinity. ..or cuckold with wife sharing.
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Well yeah, three pages of people telling you how much of a wh*re she will turn into when you stated in your first post that she said no anyway, so maybe see what other kinky fantasies of yours she can try that doesn’t involve a third person
.I guess that's an attempt at humor, either that or you're totally clueless?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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It's humour buddy.. What was you expecting, when your offering up your wife to be used as a cvm bucket.
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A ****buddy once told me that she knew a couple who did that and after a while the wife fell in love with the other guy. A former girlfriend once told me that she would be afraid to try such a thing because she believed that she would fall in love with the other dude.
mrgoodstuff
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Hit ***** consistently for 3 wk or so itll get attached.
You just confirmed you're totally clueless...lol
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.