"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wicked Eye Contact

Sargeholic

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I've been experimenting with giving out mondo EC to targets whenever I pass them, walk into a room, etc. Like serious eye****ing, but always eye-to-eye, not eye to chest or anything. I used to be someone who pretended not to look.

In the past couple days, I have been opened twice (which never happens to me), and chicks always smile at me as they pass. The new girl in the office seems transfixed by it, though she is only a 6. Its fun to see her squirm and smile under my tractor beam though.

Who ever said staring is a bad thing? If you do it right, stuff starts opening up. Just be cool and confident in it and don't get lecherous.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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lordson

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how are you doing it?

just insessant staring? that just get creepy after a while, unless your a fairly decent looking bloke

what kind of expression do you hold on your face? longing/smirk/freindly smile/admiration
 

Sargeholic

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Incessant is a bit over it, I would just say a confident gaze. Making sure you lock their eyes and hold it until they look away and smile.
 

Bonhomme

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Yah, the eyes have it

There's something to this. Definitely a "confident gaze," rather than a "psycho stare," though. The real difference is a sort of inviting warmth.

Make love to her with your eyes. Yeah, that's the way I'd put it. It can turn a girl into putty in your hands.
 

PeoplesChamp

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yeah I have been field testing a "confident gaze" EC This week at school. I've found that I helps to add some animation/expression to your face. Don't just have that blank-zombie look that most people walking around have. Indifference can be a good general strategy or approach towards the outcome of an interaction with an hb but you have to show signs of vibrance if you want women to think you are warm. I've been adding a closed-mouth half smile when I walking past/make eye contact with an hb and 9x out of ten I get positive reciprocity.

BTW, I correlated having fun with your buddies/aquiantances on campus with women being receptive and interested in appoaches and openings. I also joke around, laugh, and generally have a good time with my friends on campus. Women see this and they gravitate towards it. Show a confident indiffernce towards their presence while doing it and then almost exaggerate an EC taking notice them (as if you did know they were there before...even though, of course, you did).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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