"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wicked Eye Contact

Sargeholic

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I've been experimenting with giving out mondo EC to targets whenever I pass them, walk into a room, etc. Like serious eye****ing, but always eye-to-eye, not eye to chest or anything. I used to be someone who pretended not to look.

In the past couple days, I have been opened twice (which never happens to me), and chicks always smile at me as they pass. The new girl in the office seems transfixed by it, though she is only a 6. Its fun to see her squirm and smile under my tractor beam though.

Who ever said staring is a bad thing? If you do it right, stuff starts opening up. Just be cool and confident in it and don't get lecherous.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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lordson

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how are you doing it?

just insessant staring? that just get creepy after a while, unless your a fairly decent looking bloke

what kind of expression do you hold on your face? longing/smirk/freindly smile/admiration
 

Sargeholic

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Incessant is a bit over it, I would just say a confident gaze. Making sure you lock their eyes and hold it until they look away and smile.
 

Bonhomme

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Yah, the eyes have it

There's something to this. Definitely a "confident gaze," rather than a "psycho stare," though. The real difference is a sort of inviting warmth.

Make love to her with your eyes. Yeah, that's the way I'd put it. It can turn a girl into putty in your hands.
 

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yeah I have been field testing a "confident gaze" EC This week at school. I've found that I helps to add some animation/expression to your face. Don't just have that blank-zombie look that most people walking around have. Indifference can be a good general strategy or approach towards the outcome of an interaction with an hb but you have to show signs of vibrance if you want women to think you are warm. I've been adding a closed-mouth half smile when I walking past/make eye contact with an hb and 9x out of ten I get positive reciprocity.

BTW, I correlated having fun with your buddies/aquiantances on campus with women being receptive and interested in appoaches and openings. I also joke around, laugh, and generally have a good time with my friends on campus. Women see this and they gravitate towards it. Show a confident indiffernce towards their presence while doing it and then almost exaggerate an EC taking notice them (as if you did know they were there before...even though, of course, you did).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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