"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wicked Eye Contact

Sargeholic

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I've been experimenting with giving out mondo EC to targets whenever I pass them, walk into a room, etc. Like serious eye****ing, but always eye-to-eye, not eye to chest or anything. I used to be someone who pretended not to look.

In the past couple days, I have been opened twice (which never happens to me), and chicks always smile at me as they pass. The new girl in the office seems transfixed by it, though she is only a 6. Its fun to see her squirm and smile under my tractor beam though.

Who ever said staring is a bad thing? If you do it right, stuff starts opening up. Just be cool and confident in it and don't get lecherous.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lordson

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how are you doing it?

just insessant staring? that just get creepy after a while, unless your a fairly decent looking bloke

what kind of expression do you hold on your face? longing/smirk/freindly smile/admiration
 

Sargeholic

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Incessant is a bit over it, I would just say a confident gaze. Making sure you lock their eyes and hold it until they look away and smile.
 

Bonhomme

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Yah, the eyes have it

There's something to this. Definitely a "confident gaze," rather than a "psycho stare," though. The real difference is a sort of inviting warmth.

Make love to her with your eyes. Yeah, that's the way I'd put it. It can turn a girl into putty in your hands.
 

PeoplesChamp

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yeah I have been field testing a "confident gaze" EC This week at school. I've found that I helps to add some animation/expression to your face. Don't just have that blank-zombie look that most people walking around have. Indifference can be a good general strategy or approach towards the outcome of an interaction with an hb but you have to show signs of vibrance if you want women to think you are warm. I've been adding a closed-mouth half smile when I walking past/make eye contact with an hb and 9x out of ten I get positive reciprocity.

BTW, I correlated having fun with your buddies/aquiantances on campus with women being receptive and interested in appoaches and openings. I also joke around, laugh, and generally have a good time with my friends on campus. Women see this and they gravitate towards it. Show a confident indiffernce towards their presence while doing it and then almost exaggerate an EC taking notice them (as if you did know they were there before...even though, of course, you did).
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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