"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wicked Eye Contact

Sargeholic

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I've been experimenting with giving out mondo EC to targets whenever I pass them, walk into a room, etc. Like serious eye****ing, but always eye-to-eye, not eye to chest or anything. I used to be someone who pretended not to look.

In the past couple days, I have been opened twice (which never happens to me), and chicks always smile at me as they pass. The new girl in the office seems transfixed by it, though she is only a 6. Its fun to see her squirm and smile under my tractor beam though.

Who ever said staring is a bad thing? If you do it right, stuff starts opening up. Just be cool and confident in it and don't get lecherous.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lordson

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how are you doing it?

just insessant staring? that just get creepy after a while, unless your a fairly decent looking bloke

what kind of expression do you hold on your face? longing/smirk/freindly smile/admiration
 

Sargeholic

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Incessant is a bit over it, I would just say a confident gaze. Making sure you lock their eyes and hold it until they look away and smile.
 

Bonhomme

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Yah, the eyes have it

There's something to this. Definitely a "confident gaze," rather than a "psycho stare," though. The real difference is a sort of inviting warmth.

Make love to her with your eyes. Yeah, that's the way I'd put it. It can turn a girl into putty in your hands.
 

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yeah I have been field testing a "confident gaze" EC This week at school. I've found that I helps to add some animation/expression to your face. Don't just have that blank-zombie look that most people walking around have. Indifference can be a good general strategy or approach towards the outcome of an interaction with an hb but you have to show signs of vibrance if you want women to think you are warm. I've been adding a closed-mouth half smile when I walking past/make eye contact with an hb and 9x out of ten I get positive reciprocity.

BTW, I correlated having fun with your buddies/aquiantances on campus with women being receptive and interested in appoaches and openings. I also joke around, laugh, and generally have a good time with my friends on campus. Women see this and they gravitate towards it. Show a confident indiffernce towards their presence while doing it and then almost exaggerate an EC taking notice them (as if you did know they were there before...even though, of course, you did).
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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