Why?

[HandyAndy]

Why is it that when a girl shows interest you suddenly start to like her, when you never did before?

 

[tick37]

Maybe it's because you didn't know she was even an option. The girls who really want you usually don't show it because they don't want to look like a fool to you. The ones who come after you are usually the ones you should watch out for.

 

[KontrollerX]

Well its flattering for one thing and since you are a young fella you probably just aren't used to it yet.

Tick's take on things is spot on as well.

 

[aldaris]

what kind of girl is interested in a 16 year old boy? most 16 year old girls like guys twice their age. is this a 10 year old that has a crush on you? that is really cute.

personally, i have figured that most broads want a piece of my meat muscle. i don't give it a second thought.

 

[HandyAndy]

what kind of girl is interested in a 16 year old boy? most 16 year old girls like guys twice their age. is this a 10 year old that has a crush on you? that is really cute.

personally, i have figured that most broads want a piece of my meat muscle. i don't give it a second thought.

The ****? Why is someone being interested in a 16 year old such a big deal to you? Who the **** are you anyway? Atleast I'm learning this at a young age, what were you doing when you were 16? Playing video games all day?

 

[MooseGod]

what kind of girl is interested in a 16 year old boy? most 16 year old girls like guys twice their age. is this a 10 year old that has a crush on you? that is really cute.

personally, i have figured that most broads want a piece of my meat muscle. i don't give it a second thought.

Are you by any chance a frat boy? Just seemed like the type...

 

[tick37]

The ****? Why is someone being interested in a 16 year old such a big deal to you? Who the **** are you anyway? Atleast I'm learning this at a young age, what were you doing when you were 16? Playing video games all day?

Don't let him have control of your emotions. He's only going to be laughing about it. Anyway, good luck with this chick.

 

[Supremo]

Yeah Andy I know what you're sayin. This happened A LOT before I found the boards. It's basically just knowing that a girl "likes" you, so you feel flattered, and especially if you aren't really getting any action, you'll want to pursue it.

The more chicks you get with, the more other girls will feel attracted to you (weird, how that works), and the less you'll feel this, which in turn, makes chicks like you more cause you don't come off as needy.

Quite the sentence above. But yeah you get the idea.

 

[tick37]

Yeah Andy I know what you're sayin. This happened A LOT before I found the boards. It's basically just knowing that a girl "likes" you, so you feel flattered, and especially if you aren't really getting any action, you'll want to pursue it.

The more chicks you get with, the more other girls will feel attracted to you (weird, how that works), and the less you'll feel this, which in turn, makes chicks like you more cause you don't come off as needy.

Quite the sentence above. But yeah you get the idea.

Yup, build a stable. Then once your stable is full, the rejection from chicks won't be so bad because you've got some waiting in the wings. It kills the desperation.

 

[HandyAndy]

OK thanks for the advice but how can I go about talking to the girls that are showing interest, i always get nervous, i care about what they think of me and all

 

[aldaris]

The ****? Why is someone being interested in a 16 year old such a big deal to you? Who the **** are you anyway? Atleast I'm learning this at a young age, what were you doing when you were 16? Playing video games all day?

please! video game? i was a freaking video game when i was 16.

at 16 i was starting on varsity! 3rd game of the season i scored two touchdowns in one quarter! after that it was easy to pick-up chicks. daddies were giving me their daughters. mothers were checking me out. it was amazing. i was able to skip out of class when i wanted to as well. i would go down to the coach's office and shoot the bull like real men do. i ended up being first team all-newcomer for the entire city (2nd team all-newcomer for the state).

didn't hurt that i also had to shave twice a day and had enough hair on my chest to hide a family of four.

 

[HandyAndy]

Maybe it's because you didn't know she was even an option. The girls who really want you usually don't show it because they don't want to look like a fool to you. The ones who come after you are usually the ones you should watch out for.

Well thats exactly it...the ones that you say dont show their interest are the ones that really want it, and theyre not making my life any easier by not giving me any signals to pick up on

And aldaris, i dont give a crap about your football career, so gtfo of my thread

 

[ready123]

if you want a laugh, go read aldaris' archive

fvckin hilarious

 

[SickAgain]

Aldaris, no one likes braggers. If your life is that damn interesting go write some memoirs to see if some actually gives a bad word.

 

[everywomanshero]

Why is it that when a girl shows interest you suddenly start to like her, when you never did before?

It;s called reciprocity. We tend to like those who like us. Despite all this Jedi Ninja Super PUA talk where nerds fantasize about acting aloof and suddenly all the women are wanting them, a great deal of empirical evidence says that in general people like those who like them also.

It;s just like anything else, in general people tend to mate with those who are similar to them, but one can always point out the minority of examples that would suggest the opposite. Social science is about averages.

 

[DonGorgon]

OK thanks for the advice but how can I go about talking to the girls that are showing interest, i always get nervous, i care about what they think of me and all

say hello smile and flirt... Make eye contact... touch their hands... then back off.... then you should be in

 

[HandyAndy]

say hello smile and flirt... Make eye contact... touch their hands... then back off.... then you should be in

Easier said than done, shes been showing interest for so long and ive held back for so long that im starting to care what she thinks about me, we constantly lock eyes in class but nothing more, becuase im just too nervou

 

[tick37]

Easier said than done, shes been showing interest for so long and ive held back for so long that im starting to care what she thinks about me, we constantly lock eyes in class but nothing more, becuase im just too nervou

If you don't make a move, she'll think you're a wimp. Does that help? She'll just move on to the next decent guy that gives her attention because she's single and she can.

 

[HandyAndy]

If you don't make a move, she'll think you're a wimp. Does that help? She'll just move on to the next decent guy that gives her attention because she's single and she can.

Well during class, im always talking to other girls and having a good time with them, laughing and all...does she get jealous? If so, does her being jealous change the game or not?

 

[ARrocket]

Well during class, im always talking to other girls and having a good time with them, laughing and all...does she get jealous? If so, does her being jealous change the game or not?

Yeah, it makes her jealous, but still, if you don't act, she'll just assume you don't like her.

Happened to me TOO many times.