Why you never can tell her.....

[BeExcellent]

Like how do you mean?

Sometimes you are aloof sometimes you are warm, sometimes you are cool, sometimes you are super nice, other times you are indifferent. Sometimes you are immediately responsive, sometimes you are more distant.

But it can’t be a contrived thing it’s got to be because you actually have other stuff going on.

I’m naturally rather aloof. Works brilliantly but it’s how I am not how I’m acting.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Just be careful on intermittent reinforcement, as it’s ultimately a psychological device and easily manipulated in the wrong direction

 

[Mertz09]

Sometimes you are aloof sometimes you are warm, sometimes you are cool, sometimes you are super nice, other times you are indifferent. Sometimes you are immediately responsive, sometimes you are more distant.

But it can’t be a contrived thing it’s got to be because you actually have other stuff going on.

I’m naturally rather aloof. Works brilliantly but it’s how I am not how I’m acting.

Good advice here! Thanks.

 

[Mertz09]

Sometimes you are aloof sometimes you are warm, sometimes you are cool, sometimes you are super nice, other times you are indifferent. Sometimes you are immediately responsive, sometimes you are more distant.

But it can’t be a contrived thing it’s got to be because you actually have other stuff going on.

I’m naturally rather aloof. Works brilliantly but it’s how I am not how I’m acting.

I truly believe that the younger Men on this..... (You Don't Know What You Don't Know) should pay more attention to this kind of wisdom. Experience means a lot!!!!

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

Never tell a girl you love her first. Even if you do. Never. That's not even a theory, thats law.

Reminds me of the movie Ghost where Swayze never said “love you” he said ditto. Show don't tell it.